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Please Help, I am an emotional wreck
Firstly I cant praise you doctors enough for posting on here. I truly admire and thank you,
On to my story, 4 weeks ago, I like most others on here made the mistake of going to a brothel in Australia and to cut a long story short. I had PROTECTED intercourse for all of about 50 seconds and there was no ejaculation. However when I pulled out I was like shivers the condom was off and pertruding from her. the condom was well and truly half way out. I can only believe it slipped off as I pulled out
I am just terrified that I could of risked my life with the girl I love more than anything now. Oh and I am un circumsized which aprently makes the risk higher and that has scared the hell out of me. I have not had any symptoms apart from headaches. anyway I was tooo nervous so rather tha waiting the 6 weeks I got a Hiv test at 4 weeks and it was negative. I am just so scared, even to a point where I just want to hurt myself.
The facts that I have been given here is Australia is that if yo have unprotected sex with somebody that is unknown the chances are 1 in a million. but i was protected so surely that makes the risks lower again.
According to a government sexual clinic there is less than 1% of sex workers that have Hiv in Aus and somebody from the sexual health clinic done an assesement on the sittuation and told me there is no risk at all and there was no reason to of been tested. I am just petrified it has really affected my life.
If you can tell me your thoughts i would e so very much appreciative
On to my story, 4 weeks ago, I like most others on here made the mistake of going to a brothel in Australia and to cut a long story short. I had PROTECTED intercourse for all of about 50 seconds and there was no ejaculation. However when I pulled out I was like shivers the condom was off and pertruding from her. the condom was well and truly half way out. I can only believe it slipped off as I pulled out
I am just terrified that I could of risked my life with the girl I love more than anything now. Oh and I am un circumsized which aprently makes the risk higher and that has scared the hell out of me. I have not had any symptoms apart from headaches. anyway I was tooo nervous so rather tha waiting the 6 weeks I got a Hiv test at 4 weeks and it was negative. I am just so scared, even to a point where I just want to hurt myself.
The facts that I have been given here is Australia is that if yo have unprotected sex with somebody that is unknown the chances are 1 in a million. but i was protected so surely that makes the risks lower again.
According to a government sexual clinic there is less than 1% of sex workers that have Hiv in Aus and somebody from the sexual health clinic done an assesement on the sittuation and told me there is no risk at all and there was no reason to of been tested. I am just petrified it has really affected my life.
If you can tell me your thoughts i would e so very much appreciative
I have a similar incident here in Australia - in Sydney with a prostitute...you can see my posting of yesterday called "help for a silly guys". The only difference is that my condom did not fall off and i also did not *** in inside the prostitute. I'm interested in your information from the government sexual clinic that less than 1% of sexworkers have HIV in Australia - but is this really a reliable statistic?
I think that if the sex worker is engaged in anal sex then the risk is higher, and also if they give blow jobs without condoms could be used as a proxy for generally unsafe behaviour...any thoughts?
I think that if the sex worker is engaged in anal sex then the risk is higher, and also if they give blow jobs without condoms could be used as a proxy for generally unsafe behaviour...any thoughts?
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