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condom slip worried

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Had sex with a lady on 8th Feb 2014.......i did use condom. She was on top. On my climax as she moved out i couldnt see condom on my penis. I started searching on bed cudnt....only saw was few drops of wettish on my side in bed. I asked the lady to check the condom. It was inside her. Now i dont know it i did all tht without condom or on she moving out she remived the condom with it. The next day i asked the lady to check hiv...she did and she was negative. Plz advice wht shud i do...i still guess tht when she remived me she came out with the condom. Plz help ???? 
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1) read the advice given already
2) See #1
3) Possible that is why we say 3 months
4) No
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Yesterday 22nd March was hitting my 6 week. I had the risk back 6week in midnight thus i tested in noon. (hope that doesnt matter)

The test was called Alere HIV 1/2 Determine (finger *****) and results in 20 min. Result Negative.
The lab person did follow the procedure but did not put booster...on me asking he said they are out of stock BUT THAT DOES NOT MATTER as the results are 100%.

I was still unhappy with the Lab so decided to visit another Lab and test again. They tested me via UNIGOLD (same result in 20 min)..They had all the ingredients required ie booster. Result Negative.

I still stay worried on following issue:
1) 12 weeks/13 weeks or others say 6 months ??

2) I stay in 3rd world country where there are no more good tests better then this Alere HIV Determine 1/2 or Unigold..are these enough to test for 6 weeks

3) Leaving aside the Low/High risk....What are the chances of 6 week Negative turning Positive in coming 12 weeks/13 weeks or 6 months ??

4) Reading through threads small rated would seroconvert after 6 weeks....any specific reason behind or its the immune.

Sorry for writing alot...would appreciate the answers
I need your help and advices
Thanks .
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No.
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Shud i consider taking PEP ?
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You cannot rely on anyone else's test.
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Testing the lady being negative...doesnt tht help ??
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Yes.
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3 months ?
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If you don't know, you'll have to test.
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I aint sure tht i lost it on withdrawer...the fact is i did wore it. Now lost in DURING or the time WITHDRAWING i dont really know !!!!
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If you lost it on withdraw you do not need to test for HIV.
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Thanks..i will make sure always i hold the ring. Regarding this incident i lost it on withdrawer and checking her status as negative. Should i wait for 3 months or ?
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If she didn't have trouble getting the condom out, then you lost it on withdraw. Next time hold onto the ring of the condom when withdrawing.
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Plz advice ???
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