Please, can someone allay some concerns? In a momentary lapse of judgement I met a woman at a bar and engaged in very deep french kissing and mutual masterbation (me fingering her, and she stroking me). I have no clue to her health and std status. I've come down with flu-like symptoms 3 weeks since being with her. I am sure it's just the flu but can someone share their thoughts on HIV exposure from french kissing and fingering a woman? Thanks for your thoughts.