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HIV; HERPES?

Hello,

Tested positive mild BV& No Yeast, still pain with urination, cyst like swelling in pubic area no sores, cured mild bv, got reswabbed and bv was gone. According to the doctor, no yeast present. I was told not to even consider having herpes or hiv and that i shouldnt even test but obviously something is going on with me.

I'm a virgin and I am 19 years old. I have met a partner in July/August and we dated for about three months. He was the only individual I have ever performed oral sex on. He never officially came into my mouth, but he I did taste and swallow the precum. I am unsure if i had any cuts or ulcers present at any given time during the few months we were dating. (I tend to get canker sores, but now I have them quite often almost 5-6 months later, I'm not sure why but I read it could be a sign of hiv). I've had fevers also, and i would be told they were a respiratory virus by my doctor or because of the season, I've had unexplained neck swelling also. And my body has minor aches but, I was always achy as I also have anxiety and I think it is my nerves.  I was not tested for STDs besides chlamydia and Gonnorrhea as they hardly wanted to test me for any STD because i'm a virgin. Back to the story however, my ex partner has not been tested for hiv (bigger stds) by a blood test. He told me that he has in the past came into multiple girls, and they never got pregnant. Is that a sign of having an STD? Again, he and I have never had sex, but I did swallow his precum. And his genital has brushed up against my buttcheek in the shower but I definitely believe that particular scenario is not a risk. ALSO, As for a handjob, if semen gets onto the hand, especially with papercuts or hangnails present, can any STD particularly HIV be transmitted this way. Thank you for your patience, and I hope to hear back from you soon, this is quite alot to read! I am planning to get tested. As after this partner, I met another partner who tested positive for Genital Herpes. I also, never did anything sexual to this individual, but he did finger me by pushing my cotton underwear into my vaginal opening vigorously. I was told by the doctor this was no risk, even if he had touched himself because the virus cannot pass through fabric, even if I was really lubricated. I had a bad vibe, and I was the one who told him to get tested. I am totally against STDs, and I am honestly not interested in having actual intercourse until I am married, it would suck to contract an STD from not even having intercourse, and trying to be careful. Thanks again for your patience, this is quite a long one!
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This is an HIV forum, and your doctor correctly told you that you can't have HIV so there is no purpose in you trying to work up an impossible HIV theory here.

Your problem is you won't listen to your doctor. It is unrealistic for you to try to diagnose disease when you don't have any medical training, so either accept a doctor's diagnosis, or seek therapy so that you will not try to do unrealistic diagnosis on your own.
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Well no, the doctor told me I will not have HSV. I am talking about two different STDs. I was not tested for HIV. I wanted to know if the above ways I stated are ways to contract the STD.
"I was told not to even consider having ...... hiv "
You are a virgin and no one can get HIV from oral, so you can't have HIV.
There is an std forum where you can ask std questions.
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