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Need to confirm from Joggen or Apollo

Hi,
I'm a 24 year old woman. I just have few queries. I had an active sex life  from 2008 - 2010. I had around 7 to 8 partners during that time, I had unprotected sex with almost all of them. I never did it with someone random. I knew all, well. I had my last sexual encounter somewhere in June 2011. by July 2011, I Got engaged after meeting the love of my life who is HIV negative.. After knowing my sexual past he asked me to get an HIV test. So, I got a test done in October 2011. That will be 3 months after my last exposure before my fiance. I had sex with my fiance  during the required 3 month period coz i knew he is negative. But, somewhere I read that you need to test 6 months post your exposure. so, i again did a test in March 2011. that would be 8 months post exposure. both were negative. due to anxiety issues, I again did a test in July 2012 along with my fiance (though it wasn't required). That is One whole year post exposure. All the three tests were 4th generation tests, all were NON- REACTIVE. Is it conclusive now?conclusive enough? I did all these 3 tests from the same pathology lab. it's a registered lab. they do it properly right?
I know I have anxiety issues. but, I just wanted to confirm it from JOggen or Apollo. Please read the whole thing and answer. awaiting reply.
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Time to move on.
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Yes that is correct. You really dont have anything to worry about. You dont have hiv, your partnet does not have hiv, so neither of you can give the other person somthing that you dont have.

So stop worrying and start enjoying.
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Ok, So, no. he did not have any other partner other than me and neither did I. So, there is nothing to worry, right?
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Yes other then you.
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By this
"As long as his test was at least 3 months from his last unprotected encounter with another person you have nothing to worry about. :-)
you meant, another person, other than me, right?
If that's so, then yes, we are loyal to each other since we are dating. There has been no one in his life other than me.
so, everything is ok, right?
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Thanks teak :)
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I meant, "yes, his unprotected encounter was with only me"
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You have nothing to be concerned about.
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yes, his unprotected encounter was with only.
we both got tested one year after we started dating . where he and me, we both were negative. and for that whole year, we both were loyal to each other. 100% loyal. So, nothing to worry about ,right?
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yes, his unprotected encounter was with only.
we both got tested one year after we started dating . where he and me, we both were negative. and for that whole year, we both were loyal to each other. 100% loyal. So, nothing to worry about ,right?
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As long as his test was at least 3 months from his last unprotected encounter with another person you have nothing to worry about. :-)
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Yes, I'm 100% sure. Coz he had told me so and when we both got tested, he was negative too.
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Thats correct it will not effect your results if you are 100% sure he does not have hiv, or should i say, your confident in his negative status.
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Thank you for your replies. I really appreciate it.
I just have one last query.
I was having sex with my fiance (unprotected and protected) during the 3 months and 6 months required time, post my last exposure before my fiance, coz I knew my fiances status and he was negative and still is.
so, That is OK right? It did not affect my test results, right?
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There's anxiety and the questions that it produces, and there are FACTS, and the FACTS show that it is impossible that you have HIV. Focus on the FACTS.
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Your tests are conclusive and final. You do not have HIV. Relax, enjoy and begin a new life of mutually committed monogamous relationship with your love.

It is enough, you do not need further tests
Trust the results

Best wishes
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