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Dear sir.i m currently in korea fr work.i hv some queries regarding hiv.i want to be totally abstinence frm visiting csw.bt i cant.i n my fren visited legal brothel 4times in a 2 month period.i used protection as i m over coservative i checked condom.it seems ok .brothel workers put condom firstly and performed oral and  vaginal with same condom.i asked to change bt they said it willnor broke .now again i m regreting.i hv penis head inflammation.i m not sure i .. really protected or nt against hiv.i asked about their health.they said we have to visit hospital once in a week.i dont know is it correct or not.so plzzz respond me.as i m in risk.my biggest fear is my penis inflammation which is high risk for std.help
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I m really to anxious.i m rash on penis heaf which is not std.i hv full std check up.my peni become totally red after sex n its become normal after while.now im totally out of mind thinking too much.i did dex woth csw 4 times in a row.all r condom protected .i saw condom tillvend after act.bt pne thing make me worry tht after sex i feel sticky sensation.so i m confised is duebto vaginal fluid.i worn condom .is there any leakage .st last  do my rash increase chance of std.n sir after 22days i did antibody 3 generation test.it was negative.plzzzz give response to my queries
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Thnks.i hv read that condomcr nt full proof sure again std .is this true n hw ibknow if condom broke
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You said...

"i checked condom.it seems ok "

When a condom "seems" ok it is ok. A broken condom cannot be missed!
Your event was protected and therefor you had no HIV risk.
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Thnks .now i feel relax .and sir if condom intact considering my inflammation of penis mwan risk free.n sir do condom contain lubricant.after aex with no ejacation i feel sticky .i thought it might be vaginal fluid .and sir do u hv idea about csw in legal brothel.reallybthey are weekly tested.at last if condom broke than how i will know.and sir csw spray liquid on condom before sex .i dont know why they did so.
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No.
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Thnks fr responsring.my biggest fear is theyvperform oral and vaginal with same condom.i m afraid of leaksge.n sir condom intact means safe.mean no risk.bt after sex without ejaculation i noticed sticky feeling.i didcuss with my fren .they said condom do hv lubricantvso u feel so.i m nt sure.should i need test as i hv tested 2 months ago .
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PROTECTED sex = SAFE sex
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