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my dreams came to end
On the month of august , I had protected sex with a women who is separated from her husband coz he or she may had HIV . this was the first time I ever had sex in my and wanted to let go ahead in life as soon I fullfil this stupid desire of mine ..I dnt know how. A condom is used or checked after withdrawing .. So as I started I had protected vaginal receptive sex as I was in bottom ,,no after researching I found that I was so fool to have such position. Enyway I had sex of 5-10 min and as soon I were ready to come I had another mistake that I come inside the condom and continued to drive her for 15 sec more then after feeling no sensation or enjoyment I withdrew and I don't check any breakage or tear in condom just withdrew it.ya oviusly I had eyes on uy while removing but I don't know how it look alike when it fails or bursted. Today is 65 th day of this incideet n m realy worried because some one says that when condom broke sometimes we unaware about it that make me crazy and put me on anxiety ...I had also experience mild fever of 2-3 day mile headache and today a mild pain in neck just before the ear and fatigue which is now OK as I started to eat healthy foods also experience night sweats sometimes. but don't know what is going on am I really infected ..n unlucky :-(
Not to sound harsh but there is nothing more we can say. Alot of us who know alot about this have posted with advice to you to leviant your concerns. If you take heed or not is your choice.
Again, there was no risk and you do not have HIV or haver a chance to get it. If the condom split then you would know. There is no maybes or could be's. You would know.
Again, there was no risk and you do not have HIV or haver a chance to get it. If the condom split then you would know. There is no maybes or could be's. You would know.
M confused what I do ... :-( ...some people say that when condom broke . it niether aware us nor automatically seen while removin .it's our job to check .....as I told I had continued to drive for 15 sec again while I ejaculate inside her with comdom .... Don't know its totally confusing for me just coz I never had unprotected sex in ma life n I never want to have except my future partner. And so I had fear of being tested if it came positive what will be its side effects and treatment cost ....guys u know u really encourage me but please don't let me wrong . please don't mind be cooperate .. I want to be good person in ma lif . Thank you everyone ..god bless you all ..
intact condom is a barrier for air molecules, which are million times smaller in size than hiv. simply you had no risk. period.
As we have all said. You do not have hiv. You can ask a million questions but the answer will not change. You are over thinking as nurse girl said. Go see a professional to talk about these issues but you do not have hiv at all
Thank you so much .....for yr information ...but I also had a fear of being tested . .if it came positive ...what the hell my life me ....no body is there after me.....the doctor said me about ARS symptoms . that I had actually.... But do u think my symptoms are some how attached with HIV and also thanks for reading my full post where I had written about condom ...thatbit might be broken without letting me to know so ....
One last thing...you're displaying catastrophic thinking.....which only serves to fuel anxiety. Thinking and saying things like this aren't helping you at all.
"then why I was a only victim .....now what I will tell my parent's ..they dont much love me since i born and I have no girlfriend who will encourage me to live niether have a good friends ...m alone ...how will I manage my treatment ..it's cost and side effects ..I was so unlucky never .....:-( "
"No vomiting no nausea no weight loss ....freaking out with worry ...am I unluckiest person in the world who will have HIV though using protection or the condom itself play a villain role (broken) in my short act film without knowing me .... "
I would recommend therapy based on those statements alone. That's not a healthy way to think.
"then why I was a only victim .....now what I will tell my parent's ..they dont much love me since i born and I have no girlfriend who will encourage me to live niether have a good friends ...m alone ...how will I manage my treatment ..it's cost and side effects ..I was so unlucky never .....:-( "
"No vomiting no nausea no weight loss ....freaking out with worry ...am I unluckiest person in the world who will have HIV though using protection or the condom itself play a villain role (broken) in my short act film without knowing me .... "
I would recommend therapy based on those statements alone. That's not a healthy way to think.
Sorry, but your doctor is wrong. For starters, the ONLY way to diagnose HIV is via a test....it can NEVER be diagnosed based on symptoms.
You had protected sex. Intact condoms offer complete protection. You never had a risk and really don't need testing, but why not just go and get a DUO test, to end this worry for good? It will be conclusive at this time.
You had protected sex. Intact condoms offer complete protection. You never had a risk and really don't need testing, but why not just go and get a DUO test, to end this worry for good? It will be conclusive at this time.
So finally its 80 PC chance that m infected with HIV . coz the doctor examined me and told me that what I experience in its window period ...I e 3 month . I told I have mild headache for 2 days which I dnt got ever...n I also had a week of dramatically lack of stamina and energy ..n then also had a mild viral fever and last I also experience some gastric problem like I never had ...he told me that u might have hiv .. . oh god. Why I was one only who engaged in protected sex was assure that condom was not broken ...then why I was a only victim .....now what I will tell my parent's ..they dont much love me since i born and I have no girlfriend who will encourage me to live niether have a good friends ...m alone ...how will I manage my treatment ..it's cost and side effects ..I was so unlucky never .....:-(
i had a same fear after unprotected sex with a unknown girl.. got test yesterday for HIV and its was negative....its totally our brain play's the trick...
if u have not used the condom and its still very rare to get HIV in one night stand.i mean sex without condom chances are 1 in 2000 a single exposure will infect you but u had condom and its million time low risk
if u have not used the condom and its still very rare to get HIV in one night stand.i mean sex without condom chances are 1 in 2000 a single exposure will infect you but u had condom and its million time low risk
Ty guys ...last question to your all ....please tell .....why its HIV doesnt pass via condom through vaginal fluids or secretions touch from outershide of condom while sex. .
2.I know that condom is not easy to broke and usually it gives aware that it brokes but is it give some change in physical sensation when it broke or the feeling semain remained same as protected sex has ....I had never done unprotected sex in ma life ...please cooperate :-)(
2.I know that condom is not easy to broke and usually it gives aware that it brokes but is it give some change in physical sensation when it broke or the feeling semain remained same as protected sex has ....I had never done unprotected sex in ma life ...please cooperate :-)(
As stated above hiv cannot pass the condom barrier. It's not heard off. Hiv symptoms start usually about 2 weeks after the initial intercourse and come all at once. Not bit here and there.
Also you can't get hiv from breast milk as an adult.
Also you can't get hiv from breast milk as an adult.
Thanks friend ....but today from 2 days ....I got mild fever.... The fever is like that when I seat my body behin to warm and then automatically when i star to work it came out with sweats n becamr normal n again the process going on mostly in the evening....and also had a little bit pain in glands of neck ..No loss of appetite. No vomiting no nausea no weight loss ....freaking out with worry ...am I unluckiest person in the world who will have HIV though using protection or the condom itself play a villain role (broken) in my short act film without knowing me ....
Nope, no risk.
You also assume that she had HIV,which she probably did not.
I do understand your anxiety and you are welcome to the advice that we share on here.
I have my own views about other sites and how useful they were when I was in my hour of need three years ago, needless to say I only assist on this one so you can read between the lines.
You need to come off the web now and stop worrying, you really are safe to move on buddy :)
You also assume that she had HIV,which she probably did not.
I do understand your anxiety and you are welcome to the advice that we share on here.
I have my own views about other sites and how useful they were when I was in my hour of need three years ago, needless to say I only assist on this one so you can read between the lines.
You need to come off the web now and stop worrying, you really are safe to move on buddy :)
Ty alot for encouraging me guys . uts really better website than the body.com and hiv poz forum :-) but let me know you also that I had suck her breast too ...but m not so afraid of this act coz though I such her nipple for 2-3 min felt some milk in my lips ...At that time only I threw it out from my lips without swallowing and as per my concern dnt have any ulcers or sores and lips at that time... Do u think there may be an exposure which put me at risk ?
Thank both of you but u know guys.you both given me a confidence but are you sure if a condom brokei would definitely came to know that by seeing it over the penis ...or any change in physical sensation...
Hey you have spent 65 days worrying for no reason!
HIV is not spread via protected sex, if the condom had torn you would have known about it as they completely year side to side, you don't get small holes in condoms.
HIV is also a hard virus to transmit, you do not need a test for HIV, if you test, it will come back negative from this exposure.
Try and relax, you are okay :)
Best Wishes
James
HIV is not spread via protected sex, if the condom had torn you would have known about it as they completely year side to side, you don't get small holes in condoms.
HIV is also a hard virus to transmit, you do not need a test for HIV, if you test, it will come back negative from this exposure.
Try and relax, you are okay :)
Best Wishes
James
go and get antibody test or duo..both will consider as conclusive test..n these are not ARS symptom..gud luck:)
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