about 2 months ago i cheated on my wife and now 2 months later, i've had a headache for 3 weeks in the back of my neck and lower part of the back of my head. i've felt like i have a fever, my head and face are hot a lot of times but when i check my temp, the highest its been is around 99. i read that your lymph nodes in your armpit could be swollen or sore and i checked my armpit and it is a little sore but i wouldn't have noticed if i hadn't checked. i had diahrrea for one day and now my wife has a fever and has thrown up and says she feels like she could throw up here and there. the headaches seem to be where lymph nodes would be and the pain is obvious there. and all this concerns me with hiv. when i cheated, i received oral sex and put my finger in her vagina. i don't recall having a hangnail or cutticles or any cuts on my finger and not to be too blunt but the oral sex was what i would call a deepthroat job. Only reason i include that is that i'm wondering if it's more likely to come in contact with blood that deep in her throat. Does this sound like HIV?