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y scared possible symptoms please help

hi i am a 25 year old heterosexual male i recently took a trip to southeast asia for a month while there i had 4 sexual encounters all protected that i remember 2 were oral and 2 were vaginal about no more than 10 minutes max what worries me is one night i was very intoxicated and had the sexual encounter where she spent the night i remember one time protected intercourse but i tend to have sleep sex and am worried i did and do not remember i called her and she says it was only one time though i do not believe her  about a week after returning home i had frequent urination a little burning sensation when urinating and hot flashes went to the doctor he took a urine sample and said i had some white blood cells in my urine they cultured it and said there was no infection i had a bottle of amoxcillin at home and took them for a week and it went away 3 weeks after i started to experience very sweaty and clammy palms stuffy runny nose dizziness i felt very hot but no fever loss of appetite and a white coating on my tongue this lasted about 3 days but i still felt ill for 2 weeks towards the end i has a itchy rash that lasted two days on back chest i went to the doctor again they took various blood tests mono,wbc count everything was normal my fiance is 1 month pregnant right now and today she broke out with a itchy rash that started on her back and spread to her chest neck and body she also has chills and tightness in her chest she says she doesnt have a sore throat but the doctor said she does after examining no fever but she is very tired doctor said it was hives or an allergic reaction are the symptoms which i am describing sound like hiv? please let me know i am so scared and stressed out i feel like im going to lose it
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yep get tested symptoms dont mean anything
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if you "think" you had unprotected sex...then test.  it's just that easy!

only a doctor can diagnose your symptoms...and only a test can diagnose hiv.

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i am also uncircumsized and heard that greatly increases your risk someone please respond im going crazy
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ive also been having these weird muscle spasms on my left eyebrow
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oh and muscle aches too
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thanks teak! not to bother you but none of my symptoms sound like it? 3 weeks after i started to experience very sweaty and clammy palms stuffy runny nose irratated kind of sore throat my groin area was sore i felt very very hot in normal room temp i lost my appetite a white coating on my tongue and towards the end a rash that was kind of itchy sore neck back hot flashes cold feet sorry i just really been stressed and scared my fiance is pregnant and the thought of them getting infected just wares me out but thanks again teak
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That has nothing to do with early HIV infection.
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i have also been having really tingly hands and feet and so has my fiance
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im sure i didnt have protected because i had three condoms and in the morning there were 2 left and when i asked her i said oh we did t once rite and she kind of paused and said oh yea we did there was 3 condoms and we used one ive just never had thosesymptoms the sweaty palms there not sweaty like anxiety ive had those this is all day sweaty and the sore lymph nodes in my groin ive never had that i really appreciate everyones help thanks
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Well wake up and move on.
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it was after the first time we did it im positive i wore protection i even checked it with water for leaks but when im sleeping i tend to have like sleep sex and not even realize it im really scared man what about mine and my fiances symptoms???
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If you were asleep, how can you be sure you didn't have protected sex. MOVE ON.....
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she was a csw and i was intoxicated still can not remember if there was a second time do my symptoms sound like a possible infection? what are my chances of being infected if it did happen?
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yes but i dont remember if i did a second time in my sleep if i did it was not protected what about my symptoms???
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You didn't have a risk you had protected sex.
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move on? what do you mean teak? i am serious
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Move on.
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Move on.
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p.s. during this time i had pain in my groin area and had a scratchy sore like throat
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