Ejaculation during masturbation and sex

[PSS9999]

Hi,

I am a 29 year old guy, single and have no relationships. I masturbate regularly  three to four times a week, mostly do it when I am stressed.
Questions:
1. Sometimes I ejaculate very quickly like less than a minute after erection and sometimes a little longer after erection. Is this normal? Also, I wonder if ejaculation will be same during masturbation and real sex. Since sometimes I ejaculate very soon, will I be bad during sex? Do I need to worry? (I never had sex so far).

2. When my penis is erect, I do not see my glans, as it is covered with foreskin and it is tight. Does it get normal during regular sex? Also, during ejaculation the semen does not out with force (as I see in porn movies) instead I feel like I ejaculate inside my penis itself and the fluid slowly comes out and continues as drops after penis loses the erection. Somehow I do not feel the pleasure of ejaculation and it is little bit disturbing that after ejaculation , the semen still continue to come out as tiny drops even after 30 mins or so after the penis loses the erection. Is everything normal here?

3.While erect my penis is not perpendicular to the body but more upwards and slightly curved to the left and I tend to masturbate holding the penis in the upward direction  only. Is something wrong with the morphology of my penis?    Does it hurt me during intercourse in different postures. Should I try to hold my penis perpendicular to body and masturbate?

Kindly answer to my questions.

Thank you all.

[PSS9999]

Thanks a lot for patiently answering my question. I am less worried now. I have tried to practice a bit stretching the foreskin as adviced by Nohard here.  I could stretch a bit of it. But I am afraid to pull it hard, and very often as it is very tight and covering the glans and coming to front  and looks like a nipple. I am quite afraid to stretch the skin as I fear I might tear it and cause bleeding and then fainting myself. Please help.

Thanks in advance.

[SamWoe]

1. Some days or nights! You'll *** rapid. All dependent on  your fatique,
thoughts, atmosphere at the time. And believe me after  60 odd years of
experience, alone or with an assistant be her/him, a one night stand or long
term - the  time scales will change.
2.If your foreskin does not retract behind your glands, beit through it being too tight, having a phimotic rng (tight narrow band of skin in the foreskin), then  it will be impossible for your ejaculate to spuirt out -akin to what you have seen on the porn videos. Plus dependent how tight your foreskin is , through not being retractable or  a band, your ***/ejaculate will only just be able to ooze out.
We are all different, and looking on the Internet at  sample pictures  of penises , fully highlights this. I always remember having a class mate who
just had a  pin hole opening in his foreskin , ironically his name was Cummings. I'm sure in later life he was eventually circumcised. as for this
writer , my  bridge between the glands and foreskin is  3/8th of an inch wide. Not seen any more on the Internet, usually  a fraction of this. However
it has never given me any problems.
3. Again some guys dicks when erect are straight up,whilst others lean to the front,right, left, have a bend.  Just as others are big,fat, thin,long short -
naturally  some of this is dependent on their inbuilt genes & nationality. Though  some tribes appear to have trained their bodies to be different and not just their penises, as often  depicted on  penis  lengthening sites. That
show women with long necks elongated with rings. Hinting to the reader, that they too can have a  long  'limb'  using 'their'  super duper methods.
Albeit for a special fee -NOW.    
I note  various writers to forums such as this , suggesting seeing a doctor,
personally I always found it very embarrassing  to see my GP , on personal matters such as this, plus in those days , up to probably  50 years ago, they often appeared to be  less informed certainly than some 16 year olds.
The Internet is a great source of information, but view it with caution, also
read up numerous  entries.    Then armed with background information, seek specialist  advice. Finally evaluate everything you have read plus been told. In the past too many, irrespective of the medical subject, have been railroaded into decisions that they, the patient, have then to live with for evermore. Its only the same as when you are considering insurance -
What's best for you? Not the salesman , who must have one eye on the commission with obviously his/her views on the subject.
  Finally you ask -Is their something wrong with my penis?
Well it will be different than other guys, after all  they are from different parents, even a brother can be different. We have to learn to live with of lot.
Always remember a guy I  knew, he'd lost a testicle  whilst serving on Cyprus in the army , he fathered twins later. The point is 'your tackle'
can perform  even if it is not the 'average' design.
Go forth my friend and  study the writings on your queries, then with greater knowledge decide the rote ahead.
SamWoe          

[PSS9999]

Ok. Thank you will check on that.

[NOHARD]

The problem with circumcision is that it could lead to more problems, loss of sensitivity for one, and lots of guys are now restreaching the skin to form a foreskin, and yes in can be done.
The best thing for you is google circumsision and its disadvantages, the you can way them all up and google foreskin streaching, then you can get the full picture.
Good Luck

[PSS9999]

Hi,

Is circumcision a better idea than these exercises? It is quick. Are there any disadvantages? Please help.

Thanks.

[NOHARD]

Just remember all the things on pegym are free, look just try streaching your foreskin and see how far it will go, you could proberly hang a 10 pound on it and it would be ok, so just try some gentle streaching and see how you go.
Good Luck

[PSS9999]

Hi,

Thank you for replying to my post. Yes I have read that stretching the  oreskin regularly makes it loose. But I am afraid that I might tear the skin while stretching it. Is it really necessary that the foreskin retract? I never had sex so I really have no idea what will be the problem if foreskin does not retract. From what I describe, do I suffer from premature ejaculation, and is my penis morphology is not normal? If so, do you advice me to consult a specialist before marriage and get things corrected.

Thank you answering.

[NOHARD]

Hi if you go to pegym you can find an exercise thats called edging, doing this exercise will help incress you delay time.
OK a tight foreskin, seems weird that after so long its not gone loose by now on its own, its just a case of steaching it, get some baby oil round it and try getting it back as far as you can, and streaching it long ways and side ways, getting flexable, and if you have the time do it twice daily, you should find this will work.
OK you say that you have a curve, again pegym, just find the beginner page on jelqing, it a pe exersize, but at the same time will start to straighten your p***s, dont rush the program and just do as they say and you will be OK.
Good Luck

[PSS9999]

Thank you. So are things abnormal in my case and do I really need to seek advice/treatment from a doctor. I was thinking that I will visit a doctor only if I get any problems after having sex. I am little bit concerned about any changes to my natural penis.

[Caryopteris]

I would see a urologist if your foreskin does not retract.  Just say you have foreskin issues when you make the appointment.  That should be enough.  

When masturbating, try to lengthen the amount of time until ejaculation.  I am sure you can find exercises on line on learning to make it last.  Ideally at times you would ejaculate quickly and other times be able to last.  This is best for real sex because variety and control is good.  

You don't want to be efficient every time.  Try your other hand.  A woman won't be an expert on your techniques, so it's annoying to a woman if there is only one type of stimulation that you have taught yourself to respond to.  Again, variety is good.