Shemale porn/ ED/ Straight

[hoodieman231]

Hey guys whats going on?

I have a HUGE problem...I'm 21 years old, and I love porn as much as the next guy. But for some reason, after my gf and I broke it off after 4 years, I stumbled upon shemale porn. after that I was hooked. Its been a year now that, and I cant stop watching it. Here's the problem. I met someone, we became close. When it came time to do the deed, I couldnt get hard. We thought it was just nerves. Just the other night we went for it again, and I couldn't get it up.  But as soon as I watch shemale porn, Im hard as a damn rock! I know Im not gay, I tested it out by watching gay porn, just to make sure. Thankfully I didnt get hard. I was bored. So I went back to shemale porn, I tried to watch straight porn but couldnt get hard. WTF is wrong with me?! I cant get hard for the real deal but I can only get hard for shemale porn. Can someone please help me out.

[Spangler]

It's not performance anxiety, it's not that you miss your girlfriend, and it's not that you're gay. I went through the same thing, though not specifically with shemale porn. Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

Afterwards, explore this site: http://yourbrainonporn.com/

Shemale porn is almost exclusively alluring to heterosexual men. Seems a little strange, right? Here's why it happens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-A8GvUehq4

After you look at those links, message me if you need some more advice.

[Andrew John Rynne, MD]

This is probably performance anxiety erectile dysfunction. When you were getting intimate with your girlfriend you started to wonder about your porn predilection and wonder if you would function normally under field conditions. This kind of wondering will scramble messages trying to get through from your sub-conscious brain to your penis. Then one failure led to the next and the thing then becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy.
Take that girl out again, tell her what the problem is (that you are watching yourself), take intercourse off the menu for a while. Then sometime when you have a half decent erection she comes on top of you, puts your penis into her vagina and does all the work. You just lie there and do nothing. No performance no anxiety. Have fun!

[remar]

This all started after you and your girlfriend broke up. So, that could be the problem, you're not over the breakup.
Since this is really bothering you, interfering with other relationships and you seem to be addicted to this type of porn I would really recommend seeing a therapist to find out what's going on. There's nothing wrong with seeing a therapist. They can help you figure out problems you can't figure out on your own.