Hello!
Your story is very interesting to me, because I have had a similar experience. I have had to have surgery two times to remove a large cyst from my ovary. Before I started taking BC pills I would experience SEVERE pain all in my abdomen from the cyst rupturing...it would rupture then fill up again...when all the fluid was in the cyst it would stop hurting...I know what you mean about the pain...and to tell you the truth, I am glad to hear that child birth is less painful, because what I experienced when they were rupturing was too much to bare!! I just have a couple of questions for you....do you know what type of cyst you had? by chance was it a mucinous cystadenoma? I have heard that estrogen protects our bodies from bone loss, increased risk of heart disease and all that..so if there is ANY other option, I would get a second opinion about removing the ovaries...I am very sorry to hear or your experience...I know you posted this long ago, so if you have an update, I would love to hear it...THank you for sharing!
I do have endometiosis. at least they tell me that i have fluid and endometrial tissue in my fallopian tubes when i had my tubes tied. i have no symptoms od endometiosis though. I dont have painfull periods....the onmly time i have abdominal pain is when a cyst ruptures. if they take my ovaries i will have them take my uterus to because there is no point in having it and it will just be sitting there waiting to develop cancer. i have tried every birth control that is believed to help with reduce the cysts. i have the small cysts that are actually inside my ovaries that the doctor says is normal....and the birthcontrol really does reduce those but no birth control that i have taken has had any affects on the ones that are outside of my ovaries. thank you for your concern.
I am so sorry to hear about your long-term issues with painful cysts. You really have been through it and I am so glad you were able to have kids. I know you mentioned you tried bc pills in the past, but have you tried them again after having your kids? Sometimes, you have to try many different ones before finding one that works. It may be worth a try before you decide to have your ovaries removed. Do you have PCOS or endometriosis? An underlying condition like one of these may be the cause of your multiple cysts. In the case of PCOS, sometimes working with an endocinologist can help stop the cysts. A gyn who specializes in endometriosis may be able to help you find help through medications. Unfortunately, it will have to be trial and error to see what works and it sounds like you have been through a lot of that already! :(
As far as having your ovaries removed....do you plan to take HRT? If not, then you are going to experience many unwanted side effects by having this surgery at your age. I had mine removed three years ago due to cancer when I was 37 years old and now I already have osteoporosis. I was not able to take HRT because of the cancer. I take my calcium daily and did all the recommended things to prevent this. But, with zero estrogen, your bones start to break down. Also, there are effects to libido and many other areas.
If you do take HRT and your cysts are being caused by an underlying condition like endometriosis, you may still make cysts and the endo can grow in your peritoneal cavity even after your ovaries have been removed. So, I think it would be a great idea to try to determine if you do have an underlying issue causing these cysts. That way, you can proceed well informed. It would be a shame to have the surgery and then end up with similar pain.
Sometimes, it helps to get a fresh opinion on your health. Another gyn may be able to offer you some alternatives to surgery. Good luck on finding answers! I hope you can get some help and remain cyst free! If you find something that helps, please be sure to post your experience.
Shelly