I'm in a somewhat similar situation. I'm 65 and Post-menopausal and was diagnosed with a 5+cm cyst a month ago after an ultrasound. My gynecologist didn't think it was anything to worry about and suggested a 6 mo followup. Having read a lot about cysts in post-menopausal women I didn't agree that waiting that long was an option since cysts generally don't occur in pm women, So he had me do an ultrasound in 6 weeks. It had not changed and he still thought it was OK to wait and see. He offered to remove the cyst if it would "make me feel more comfortable" and I wouldn't worry about consequences. I wasn't comfortable with his lax attitude about what could potentially be a problem. From everything I've read here on the posts, as well as on the internet, postmenopausal women are at greater risk with cysts, and they really shouldn't be getting them, so when they do it is cause for some concern. I chatted with some women on this forum and followed their advice and insisted on a referral to a gynecologic/oncologist for his opinion. They specialize in this area and I would feel more comfortable having a professional discuss my situations and my options with me. I'm scheduled to meet with him tnext week.
I had already made a decision that I needed to have the cysts, and possibly one or both ovaries surgically removed. I would rather take those steps than worry for the next number of years whether a cyst will grow back, will it be cancerous - etc.
So, for whatever its worth, that's my situation. I would strongly recommend that you also get a second opinion - whether it be from a gynecologist or a gyn/oncologist - just for your own peace of mind.
Let us know what you decide and my prayers and thoughts are with you.
They are not very big but constantly checking on them and worrying about them is no fun at all. There's no reliable way to rule out cancer without surgery, even though most cysts are benign. But it's the small percentage that are NOT benign that keep us in worry mode.
You really have little to lose if you have the ovaries removed and get on with your life without the constant vigilance and worry. I never felt better than I do now with no ovaries.
Thank you both for your replies and I agree with both of you. I forgot to mention that after the second US I did consult with a gyne/onc (who was recommended by my gynecologist when I told her that I wanted my ovaries removed...she agreed too), but his attitude was that as long as it's not growing it's not cancer. I heard such wonderful things about this doctor but felt like he dismissed me. I know the cysts are small, but as MarieMichele mentioned, constantly checking on them is not fun (and expensive, as my insurance has a high deductible). I will call my gynecologist on Monday and tell her what I would like to have done (remove the ovaries). If she agrees (again), I'll ask her to call the gyne/onc and tell me that she recommends removal. Luba28, good luck with your situation...I hope your gyne/onc is more receptive to your wishes than the one I consulted. Thanks again.
Just be aware that having both ovaries removed (as I just did for what turned out to be a benign cyst, at age 51) is major surgery. It will take a month out of your life to recover. I did it because I am a breast cancer survivor (9 years) and I hope it was worth it, in the end!
I had both ovaries and fallopian tubes removed laproscopically nearly three weeks ago, and I now realize I was not at ALL prepared by my doctor's office for what I would be going through. I live in the U.S.; this was a day surgery, and I was discharged being told I could return to work and walk my dog THE NEXT DAY. I can barely do that now, 3 weeks later. If you are reading this pre-surgery, please take it upon yourself to research the procedure, and prepare yourself for a slow recovery over a month, with plenty of help and support. I didn't!
Here's what I wish someone had told me - prepare yourself and rearrange your life for being in bed, on total bed rest with just a little puttering around the house, for at least two weeks. I thought I'd be back at work on my laptop the next day! (That's what the only handout I received indicated.) I am a solo mother to two school-age children, and I had no backup help arranged for them and for simple chores like grocery shopping - big mistake. Thank god my mother stepped in and filled the gaps! But it would have been far better to go into it expecting this, instead of feeling faint and bursting into tears and having to call her again each day.
You should arrange to take a two weeks off work, and then go back part-time for two weeks, but stay off your feet. Rally your family and friends NOW to create a support network, and help you financially through this period, if you need it. I am now 3 weeks out from the laproscopic removal of both ovaries. My doc did not mention a word about recovery, I downplayed it in my mind as "minor" surgery, and then had to keep canceling commitments, day by day, and getting frustrated. I would try to just do e-mail at the computer for an hour or two, and my body would start shaking from exhaustion. I felt like a wimp, until I read this forum. Why don't doctors prepare us? (And I have an all-women gyn practice!)
I went back for my two-week check-up certain there was something terribly wrong with me, because I was still in pain. They checked and found nothing. I think the pain just lasts longer than they admit! Also, gas causes a lot of the pain, I now will try Gas-X daily. (Unclear why this is, but they inflate you with co2 during the surgery, which is part of the problem - you will feel very bloated, like you're months pregnant, for a good while.) I also wish someone had told me to take a gentle laxative every day post surgery. It took me five days to have a bowel movement, and that was not fun when it finally happened. I now read this is common.
It would have been better, psychologically, to just clear the slate for a month from the start. You can always add things back! Don't expect to accomplish anything at all for at least two weeks - even reading anything serious. Get a lot of escapist fiction, magazines, movies and TV miniseries around you, and just relax and enjoy them ...
Just a little reminder.... everyone is vastly different in the way in which they recover. I was told it was going to be a piece of cake (removal of ovary and tube.)And.. it was.. I was one of the lucky ones (and Ruthie... you may also be as fortunate as I was. ) I truly had no pain to speak of. I took one pain med and I had the worst headache I've ever had! I then only took tylenol x strength for a few days.
I'm not going to say I felt 100% right away.. But truly it was more soreness than actual pain. I had my 1 week post op and went to the grocery store the same day. I was told not to lift anything, drive , or do heavy housework for two weeks. Unlike the previous poster, I was given lots of recovery information before the procedure and was even required to watch a little video .Now.. THAT was misleading since the little actress in the video had the procedure on a Friday and went back to work on Monday ! Sure......
I just wanted to mention that not all folks have a hard time of it.. I would have driven much earlier had I been permitted. I didn't have the bloating nor pain associated with the gas either. ..I really was lucky !!! So there is another side to it.
As far as the decision to remove the ovaries or not--- I believe it was Marie Michele who stated that checking on these cysts and worrying about them constantly is no fun at all . Couldn't agree more !!! I don't do the waiting game very well !!!
Good luck and keep us posted
Sandy (and I'm waaaay past menopause)
Thank you both for sharing your experiences. But it looks like I won't be experiencing that for now....my gynecologist wants me to have another US in 3 months, which will be my 4th since September. kgregor, I'm sorry your recovery has been so difficult. If I eventually do have the procedure, I'll keep an open mind and hope that my experience is more like sandymac's. So, I won't know anything until the end of May. Thank you again for taking the time to reply and for your advice.