Help me pleass

[fisher89]

Good morning I have a big problem am 6 weeks pregnant an am very stress out. I am to the point where i dont want to go thru with this pregnancy. This will be my 4 child. Never had a feeling like this before.

[sweetbee3]

Your not alone. A lot of woman experience this. So don't feel guilty one bit.

I have a six year old & a two year old.  I didn't get fixed after my son, because well, I'm young!  At that time (23 years old) I felt later in life I may want another.  Now, 25 I'm pregnant again. Very happy,  but I wasn't at first. I was on birth control,  the 5 year implant.  But still had normal periods.  First day of period being due, I had a feeling,  tbh I was expecting a big fat negative!  But...no it was a positive.  Shocked.  Confused?  My husband and I talked about it. And settled on keeping the baby, but considering adoption.  After doing research I couldn't do abortion.  But that's just me.

But.... after speaking with a agency,  getting our application,  going through the paper work. I couldn't... I just couldn't.  My husband pointed out, "we will survive "  meaning yeah it's going to be hard but we can get through it. My father even made a comment "your always gonna be broke" who cares?? So here I am 31 weeks and a baby girl due in November.  

This is your choice.  Even if you can't stand the thought of killing your seed, adoption might be the answer?  What ever you choose I wish you the best. Helps to talk, and vent to someone about how you are feeling as well. Good luck!!

[AnnieBrooke]

Have you considered adoption?  It can be a very selfless solution, and not as distressing by far as having to consider abortion.

[fisher89]

No this was not planned
Am stress because I can't work I already have 3 others kids

[roflbecca]

Pregnancy is one thing, caring for another human being is another.

You don't HAVE to go through with this.pregnancy.
You have options. And there is no right or wrong option.
It is all up to you, and what you want. What will work for you and your life.

Don't let other people make this choice for you, or guilt you into keeping it if you really don't want to.

I'd suggest talking to your S/O about it, and then talking to a doctor so you can figure out your options and what's best for you.

[HackneyMummy]

What is stressing you? Was this baby planned? Try taking some time out for yourself. Have a nice warm bath and think about your connection with the baby. It will all be OK x