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silent cries......

I'm 21 having my 2nd child I'm really scared and nobody seems to care I feel like I'm at the end of my rope I understand I got my own self in this position but a little support won't hurt..... :/
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@jam11spo couldn't have described my situation any better. I felt the same exact way. I promise you will get through it  everything will be fine. Atleast your still with the father. Because im a single parent of  a 3yr old & expecting a baby boy now.
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Awweh hunny! I am in thebsame boat but i am expecting my third having two didn't scare me I was excited and I knew it would be hard but I couldn't wait! I have gotten so use to having it as just me and my two girls that expecting my third in less then 8 weeks I am going to have another baby and I am only 20 is scary! But we get use to it it seems hard at first but once there here we forget what its like without them! Youll do amazing don't worry!
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My partner's the same. He always asks how little bump is but that's it. There's not a lot for men to experience until scans and Labour and that kind of stuff. I'm 25weeks and he still can't feel her move. It upsets me a little but I'm sure things will change when baby's here. Keep in mind your hormones are going nuts lol so it may be part of why you feel so down chick x
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5207308 tn?1401074784
I am 24 with my second i have a nearly 11month old son and i am 34 weeks pregnant from my due date they are 3 days apart in birthdays.  i know how you feel i sometimes cry myself to sleep.  the father of both of them isnt with me now so i will be a single mum to two children under 2.  its harder the closer i get as the tiredness has kicked in 10 fold but the closer i get the more excited i am.  and i just remember i wont be alone i will have 2 amazing little boys.to keep me company
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Thanks ladies
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8765505 tn?1399764936
I'm 23 and this is my second too... had my #1 @18yrs..
and I feel a little overwhelmed sometimes but then I'm like hay I can do this!
Think how scared u were first pregnancy and know it can't b as bad x
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Yes I'm in a relationship with the father but I feel like he's here physically but not mentally I hate feeling this way an no I haven't talked to him about how I'm feeling it's kinda hard
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2515342 tn?1347080637
I'm 20 with my seccond.. I'll be 21 a week after my due date and my first will only be a year and a half older then his sister. Give time for everyone to adjust to the fact of you being pregnant again but it isn't the end of the world. I thought about abortion even though I'm against myself even having to take such precisions, i was in a total reck and I would cry everyday until I realized this is a blessing and everything happens for a reason. It's not going to be easy, being a mom already you know that but things WILL get better!!!
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Are you with the baby's dad? Is there no support groups you could go to? X
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