how do I do it alone??

[sarloubaker2515]

Aside from fiance (we worked out our problems) I have no support system. I am in college full time and I work to have money to support myself and my baby but how am I supposed to do this?? I feel so alone

[sarloubaker2515]

Hope your right. Its so hard to stay strong

[gypsemommyX4]

When u put it for child support they will do a DNA test at his request I had to do it just cuz my daughters dad wanted to give me a hard time although I didn't do it till she was 2 but trust me u can do it I had my girl at 16 graduated high school at 17 and after I graduated I had no support from anyone but me and my baby girl got ahead in life yes it is going to be difficult im not gunna lie but trust me u can do it

[sarloubaker2515]

I have one friend who will help some but that's it

[sarloubaker2515]

They disowned me

[Roxanne28]

Dnt waste your time on this guy hun... Its not gonna be easy bt u can do it, what abt any family or friends ?

[sarloubaker2515]

He actually pulled the I want a test card....he was my first and only and gonna pull that ****...then he says that I shouldn't keep it

[AnnieBrooke]

... and your lawyer, who will get the child support from your slacker ex-fiance.

[sarloubaker2515]

Y'all are all I got now

[smchase]

It will be hard but I promise you can do it. There are tons of women who end up doing it all on their own and they do just fine. Im sure all the ladies on here will offer tons of support and advice. I know its not the same kind of support you are wanting but something is better than nothing at all. You can look around in your area for places that offer help and support. Most counties have something to offer. Good luck and try not to worry too much.

[sarloubaker2515]

He left thought we worked it out got up today he says I can't Do this and left

[AnnieBrooke]

You have a fiance and are asking how you will do this alone?