in need of advice

[Cls413]

I am 19 and pregnant with my first child me and my boyfriend have made the choice not to have this child ( please no one judge ) I am having second thoughts I am wondering if I am making the right choice my next doctors appointment I am supposed to schedule a ultras sound to make sure how far along I am and was on the.contraceptive depo prevera ! Never faltered on it I have never had the desire to have children but I am doubting weather or not to do this part of ne wonders some how through birth control im pregnant didn't that mean this baby should be born? ? Somebody anybody advice?

[Cls413]

If I have this child I lose my job my partner my family and college but if I don't will I ever be ok with life anyways ..........

[smiley_one]

The choice is 100% up to you. If you decide to terminate the pregnancy or keep the baby, it is no body's choice but YOURS. I do not know anyone who was on the depo pervera who has got pregnant. In my opinion, I believe that this baby was meant to be born. Whatever you decide to do is up to you, but I think once you see the ultrasounds and actually see the baby you might see the little miracle you have inside you. If you have any doubts about terminating your pregnancy make sure it is YOUR decision and no one else's decision. If you have any doubts about forgiving yourself or regretting it don't do it and don't do it just because your boyfriend wants you to. Good luck on your decision!!

[babybonita]

Definitely think this through. A baby is a blessing. Adoption is a great idea, many couples  out there would love to be parents. Share your thoughts w/ your bf even if he doesn't agree. Best of luck!

[Cls413]

Thanks everyone ill post more info as time.goes on im so stuck I never wanted kids but I feel so odd I've been on constant birth control for a long time my boyfriend.is the only person I've been with without a condom and 9 out of 10u times.he pulled out and with depo it just seems like such slim odds I mean even the doctor was surprised!!

[sehale]

You could consider open adoption. That way you someone who wants a baby will get one and you can still see your baby. That way you still have college, family, boyfriend, and you can still see your baby. Research online about all of your options before you make your decision.

[Cls413]

My boyfriend has a child already and is considerable older than me If I have this baby its mine I guess its all just gonna be how strong I am and I hope that maybe the ultrasound will give me clarity ......