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[carlanb]

if you were in an abusive relationship and your pregnant with his son. and been in it for three years now. would you try to make a family for your son bc you want your son to have his mom and dad together. or leave with your son and make it on your own.

[contrerasgrl0731]

I was in one with my sons father for 5 1/2yr before i got pg he promised me it wud change but it olny got worse at the time we lived in texas were  i now live. When i was four months i moved with him to Utah were again he promised me but he never changed i stayed with him till my son was a year nd a half couldnt ake it anymore so i told him i wanted to visit my family in tx when i got here i told him i wasnt going bk. I was gone for 3mon nd for some odd reason i thought he changed he wanted to take my son for a month sore to god he would bring him bk that was in 2011 i havent seen or talked to my son in 3 yrs  so please take my advice leave now and dont look back its for ur and ur sons own good I PROMISE YOU WILL NOT REGREAT IT.

[PaytonFaith]

I used to be. I wasn't pregnant tho. We were together 4 years then he got abusive and I literally had enough (I was young and scared for the longest time) I punched him in the face and busted his lip and told him how it is and left his *** and never looked back. He harassed me and stocked me for bout a year after that and I ended up moving a couple times. He finally gave up or never found out where I lived but it finally ended! It was rough ya but I had to do what I needed to do cuz the all the bruises and pain he caused me wasn't worth it and one day I woke up and realized I didn't deserve it! I have faith in you :)

[unique858]

I know what your going through but its up to you and only if you want to dwal with someone that treats you like that if he hasnt changed by now he never will .... do.you want your son to grow up seeing how his dad treats his mom like that

[carlanb]

how to leave witb no money and no place to go? :( ik im being stupid call me that.

[babyonboard14]

You have to leave. My mom was a single mom and she had an abusive bf when I was 5-6 I was scared to death everytime they fight and he would hurt me too but my mom protected me from him. She finally  left him. My mom told me to never let any guy lay a hand on u. No matter how much u love him. If you want ur baby to be safe I suggest you leave now.

[carlanb]

is anyone else in the same boat