need help.is my relationship with my husband gonna last for long??

[Aqsash]

Hi everybody n good morning.im 21 years old married n 35weeks pregnant.my husband is 35 years old.i was in a bad relationship before i met him n so was he we both got cheated on.anyway.i left everything in my life my education my family my friends my life style n everything n moved to my husbands country.i have been promised of loads of things but none of them happened.got married without a wedding(his family r rich but they didnt treat me fair bcz i dont have anyone here).anyway the first few monthes i was with my husband all the time we were happy.but lately he started to change.
1) before when he used to come in the morning he used to hug me n kiss me n go to sleep next to me..but now he comes to my room takes my laptop n go to the living room n stay there for hours till i wake up.then he goes to sleep all day n wake up in the evening n go work without even talking to me.
2)before he used to text me every second but now he doesnt reply when i text him.
3)before he used to ask me for sex now i ask him n he ignores me n everyday i find porn on my laptop
4)before he used to say cant wait to have u here with me.now im with him but i feel like im really far from him
5) i feel like he married me to prove to his ex that he can get more beautiful girl than her thats it.
Have no one here n im 5 weeks away from having my baby.what can i do

[Londres70]

What should you do?  Well, for now you should focus on having your baby and then deal with these other issues after the birth.  

I can say the situation doesn't sound promising, i.e. an unattentive husband, an ex wife who still wants him and is harrassing you, his family not accepting you, etc.

I see that you are living in the UK and I am not sure what country you are from, but you may need to go back if you can't independently establish yourself in the UK.

Have you talked with your husband at all about how you feel and about how he is treating you?

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, not to be rude but it appears from what you wrote the both of you have your own interests at heart. You mention you were promised loads of things that you have not recieved yet and he swooned you and now that he has you hes preoccupied with other things that he wants.
Granted we need things from a relationship but giving is better than receiving.
If he gives you all you need, including affection and you give him the things he needs, then both have the others interests at heart. I just dont see this happening from your post but is more taking and expecting.

[AnnieBrooke]

Are you in a country where people go to get couples counseling?  Or is it a more traditionalist place where women are seen and not heard?  And where are you from?  It sounds like both a culture clash and possibly that you are right that your husband married you for wrong reasons and is now indifferent or regretfui.  If you do decide that is so, what will you do?  Again this would depend on his culture -- can you go home to your family and take the baby, or would he fight you on that?  Would you want to leave if it seemed hopeless or do you love him so much that you would stay even if you thought he was regretting the marriage?  It's really hard to advise you without more information on where you came from and where you are now.  For example if you are an American girl and now are living in India, you might not have a lot of choices in regard to your child if you decide to leave.