how do i get faince back i love her to much to let her leave me like this

[KiraRuya]

If you read my other post you know what is going on. Started telling me lies in April. In which I could tell she had sex right before she got home trying to have sex with me. 2 co-workers claim they did striaght told me while I was waiting for my order there confronted her. She answer with no follow with total dumb cooment in which made it a yes she did but not saying she did in fact. DNA test I asked her to find out when she could. First time pregnancy for the both of us needed to find out for proof its mine ins thing. She answer with studdle over her words its mine so why we need it. That day at the emergency room I find out on the dissmal she was on the phone. That the Guy just did not understand why she termination the pregnancy because she Her happy She was pregant. I assume the reason she did not know who the father was and I will find out for fact she did cheated. That who month she keep screaming at me and following month I cheated. All of June her mom keeps telling us to move there or break up with me in Spanish. My faience mom only speaks Spanish they claim. I have many reason to believe she does speaks English. She was going to move for surgery and recovery at her mother place 4 hours away. I find out form the neighbor a day latter after they left se wanted me to move. I was waiting a transfer for my job since spiel so I could not move let She claimed I was never moving I said no. I found out she going to closed her house my faience stay never told me. I think her mom thunks I knew and I just dont care. Mother has not pay for 3 months. My faience never work or college refuse too. She is 21. She never act herself at all since her mom came to pick her up or after she left. She was not her everything se was against she did. July 16 she left like I coming back. July 17-29 she says we married still, family, 2 kids in the future but I need time. I asked why she told me college start a career so on. I was like I been telling to never give up on college since stepember she knew it and she cloud do it here. I think its her mother and the house she worry. She needs her surgery or she can lost the ability to have kids and death to follow. She keeps saying she be back in my life 2months and the wrist she came up with 10years. She keep changing her mind. She pretended to be pregant up to se cloud not hide it. That was July 8 she told everyone had a miss carriage at the 2nd in show nothing but I knew. I look mad and she cry for days up to July 11 the day she claim her miter asked her back for the surgery she needed done.  Latter she told me July 19 she asked to move back she did not know how she feels about me. It was so scripting like she was force to tell me I guess sister wrote it they were both in there. From day one we got together her sister was supper jealous 16 year who wants to talk to Guy who is 20 years old. She was extremee pissed that mom let my faimce move here. I think that she was threanthing by family to break up with me or be dissown. My faience is very huge I family soupport and trust of family to do anything for herself. If the tell her to do anything she do it for the family without question. I know she love me deeply untill the day she was told to move back. Yes she cheated I think she was drove by them to have sex with them do to the fact of there personality of crose she never tell me ashamed of it. I know she stay cares and love me but family. On July 30 she said its over to never called her or her family every she send my stuff back and pay her share of the bills give her time. She told me over she stubble like I dont mean it but I have too. She has never called or answer my call since. She never tell me when she going to send my stuff in which I dont think she planing on. I know one thing she told me I never dump anyone by phone so I stay question is really over. I dont think she wants it to be over but family says so. Her odd behavior just dont feel right at all. Like she teelig me something but to afraid to say what she wants too. I know her sister or mom is all ways around her when she talks to me over the phone since day one my faience told me so. To me she should of never move back there. She claim I could of said no but it was a trick question when its due to medical reason. What should I do to save her and me. To stay together. I dont care if she has cancer or STD or not able to have kids or anything. I love er whom she really is. Nothing makes sense of why she left.

[penswriter]

Vance is right...there is so much rambling in there I couldn't even finish reading it. Cut down and ask the question.

[Vance2335]

Your 1st post was moved to STD because you spoke so much about STD's and stuff and never asked a question. I think you need to cut down the long story and make sure to ask some clear questions. This will help you get a responce. The above post and your 1st post is more just rambling about her and what you and her have been through.

[KiraRuya]

I thought about writing love letter and old pictures of us to send to her with her stuff but if they move before the address is bad so it will never make it to her or if they refused the package ugh. I am bad at writing romantic or love letter on how I feel. I did try to give her ideas on how to get what she was complaing about. Eithier lived together there, here, sperated places over there so on. She knows. I dont know if she miss me when I asked she turn it on me instead. When I asked again she said sorted of, no, I guess I dont know. She seem happy but total confused at the same time what to do but we were talking bout 10-15 hours everyday the first week she left July 17-24. Then only 5-8 hours mother complains we talk to much and stop calling each other let unlimited mind form July 25-27 then July 28 was only 45mims someone called.she claim it was to baby sit her cousin all day but she was asleep. We have reason to blueberry she about 6 weeks pregant if she it is mine. But her family against abortion. I think have done again because of money reason.