Ok well now do I find love?

[Omusicgame]

The thing is, I have been married with my wife for 3 years now.  We have been together for 8-9 years.  I mean it feels like a long time.  When I started dating my wife back then, i was really into alot of drugs n drinking, and she was the one girl who never threw me away, like alot girls did back then because i was very permiscuous.  Even when i ended up out of a coma from an accident, she was there waiting for me.  She was always there, thats all i can say.  But thats what had me keep going to her, was because of what she felt for me.  But I honestly never had that Love at first sight feeling, or that feeling in my stomach.  YOu know what IM talking About.   But now i started working at this school, and I met this girl whos probably like 19, but she is to me the most beautiful angel i have ever met.  I cant believe I am saying this when i have a wife.  But i have to get it out.  Shes beautiful, and nice, and has a good sense of humor and easy going, and and i can go on and on.  I really cant go on about my wife like that, except for the fact that she has a great heart.  But im so confused.  I just know i love this feeling i have.  But if I lost my wife I dont know what i would do?  And I was just talking to this younger girl on facebook, and she talked to me and she was so nice again, and and and.   ok im done, what u think?

[piynel]

Imagine this, 9 yrs later with e hot teenager, shes not so pretty shes not so funny..u ve been thru so much and she isnt wat she is now...Think ahead n not rite now. I suggest u cut out all communication with this young gal, imagine where u wld ve been without ur wife and appreciate her. A gd heart is beta than all u said abt the other gal. And it is way more reliable. mayb u dint feel that first sight love or that feeling in the stomach but most of us dont, but wat keeps u with ur wife for all 9yrs? most times first sight love doesnt last even 2yrs. wat u ve with ur wife is golden dnt throw it away, n dont feel bad for feelin this crush for this gal, it happens n ur only human just be man enuf to walk away...

[TTinKKerBBell]

Don't be silly (foolish).  The world is full of beautiful 19 year old girls - doesn't mean a thing - we don't live with looks......

and  you don't toss a 9 year relationship for a "pretty" teenager.

[Kayannaboo]

Noone can tell u what to do but I agree with the others ur wife was there when noone else was, u see the surface of this girl u do not know her deep down u can say ur wife has big heart thats alot can u say the same of this other girl? Do something nice for ur wife, go away together or even have a nice day and night filled with romance let her know that u appreciate her.

[Omusicgame]

Thanks guys, I know what I should probably do.  I mean, I dont feel that way now, i did last night when i was talking to her.  It just pisses me off that i never had that feeling with Cheryl that I have with this girl.  Why is love so confusing

[el_em_en_oh]

If you're here asking us, you already know the answer, and have more than likely already made up your mind about what you're going to do.

My 2 cents: Don't do it.

If you want to be with this 19y/o more than you want to be with your wife, then at least do your wife the courtesy of leaving her, PRIOR to cheating on her. She deserves at least that much from you, after sticking with you through thick & thin.

[THUNDERROAD71]

Don,t do it man it,s not worth it,your wife has been there for you since day dot.This 19 year old is just a mirage,don,t even go there because your wife is everything and this other woman is just a distraction.Forget about her and concentrate on your wife because she is the one for you and has been there for you through the tough times.Don,t risk what you have with your wife over this other woman.Walk away because once you make a mistake you can,t go back and change it,it,s done.All the best.