im back

[shyguy1080]

Hey everyone im back. Its link aka shyguy. Something went wrong with my account so i had to make a new one. Anyway, wow alot to respond too,lol

RockRose- No i dont go after super model women.. I know they are totally out of my league. I been rejected alot by average women. Why cant i not go after a women who i find somewhat attracted too?

Mami- I talked to my friend today, who gives great advice on dating and he said something interesting, almost the same as you.. He said if u were to put a good looking guy infrot of alot of women to judge, the ladies would have mixed answers on if he's good looking or not, while viceversa if a good looking female was there, it be alot different. I guess its true.. Women are not as visual as men are. And, im starting to be convinced that it really is all how a guy acts.. Im starting to feel good about approaching a woman. Im tired of this shy, scared feeling.. I have learned a lesson with the last girl, dont joke around with someone you dont know,lol. Everyone here has been awsome.. I love this forum.. I guess there still is hope for me :)

[Judy246]

You are convinced that the female gender is all screwed up?  Ok, you are your own worst enemy and this is the type of comment that will not only turn women off, it will turn all women off and no one is going to tolerate you! You just blurr out of you mouth without thinking....for example, you have a lot of ladies "female gender" on this forum trying to help you out and this "all screwed up"...would include us and I take offense to it! What the hell is wrong with you! You can't get a woman, because when you open your mouth you turn them off then you are depressed and don't understand why you can't get a woman or are misunderstood...it's what comes out of your mouth without thinking! AND you are a likeable person, but your abrasive comments towards all women is a turn off and to us ladies here that are trying to make you understand the gender better....You are your own worst enemy and I'm done.

[penswriter]

you obviously insulted her or freaked her out so much (OR see saw what your personality was really like) and was smart. she took for the hills. it's no surprise why you're single. none at all. and it has nothing to do with money or looks. it's your personality...it s*cks. it s*cks big time. i wouldn't even want to be friends and just hang out. i'd avoid you like the plague. you're a miserable, woman hating...jerk. you keep blaming women for YOUR problems when the only one to blame for YOUR issues....is you.

[mami1323]

Yes blame the women rather than look at yourself and perhaps why you drive them away. Geesh no self reflection at all. Grow up and stop blaming all women for your short comings. Your step mother sounds like she has real issues herself. As far as the last girl you were with well I think she was smart enough to know not to get involved with you. She's not the one who needs mental health. Maybe she thought your joke was rude and classless. The more you post the more we can all see exactly why you've been single for all this time.

[shyguy1080]

Those women are at fault for being with those dirbags..My step-mom is so right.. She said loser men are smart because women are dumb enough to be with them. She said women are so stupid..She is so true..

[shyguy1080]

Your right, i should give up on women. The last girl needs to seek out the help of a mental help proffessional.Its so pathetic she runs away over a harmless joke. I totally remind myself of that guy from "catcher and the rye" Or Dr. House. A few losers i picked up? Try alot.. Its never worked out with each lady i meet. I dunno, women seem to have some mental problems or something... I dont get why they get easily turned off by small dumb stuff. Dont feel sorry for me, Im sorry i dont make alot of money or im not athletic.. My theroy of women is true from experince.. No one on xxxxxxxxxxxx.xxx would give me a shot...

[penswriter]

give up on women. with your attitude you're never going to land a long term relationship. again...your generalizing all women based on the few losers you've picked up. and yes there are men who thrive on drama. i know quite a few.

you're not looking for advice anymore. you're looking for people to stroke your ego. you've come to the wrong place. right now you are extremely bitter and pathetic. i feel sorry for you.