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574170 tn?1277941303

me being bi

I dont undstand why if  a lady loves me and care for me that she can not exsept me being bi it has been 4 yrs since i been with a man
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13167 tn?1327194124
cowboy,  you posted today a question about when you can have sex with her,  taking into account her heart condition,  because you both want a baby.  

Somehow I really think there is some kind of truth to all your posts - I'm not calling them hoaxes,  but really.  If she's dumped you and is in the hospital with a trach and a pacemaker - it seems like an unnecessary question to ask when you two can start trying to conceive.

Best wishes -
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285848 tn?1219092313
My boyfriend used to be bi...I don't know if he still considers himself that way since he has never been "with" a man, but experimented and enjoyed, and not for years! He likes women much more but is not afraid to talk about men. I have accepted this and I still find it weird sometimes, but I love him more then anything in the world. Maybe your girlfriend has a hard time accepting that you find males attractive? I can understand how she could feel this way but its hard to explain. I don't think there's any bigger blow then being left for the opposite sex...maybe she's just afraid like jo929 said? The thought has crossed my mind before and had risen some momental fear, but it normally subsides when I am around him and he has no intention of leaving me, or being attracted by a male.
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i did not read all of your posts i guess i missed all of that about your girlfriend being sick and all of the others i only have read 2 if i had of read all of this, i cant blame her for leaving she has many problems and as for you trying to get her Preg, maybe she has to much on her plate to deal with you, and your problems  would it not be better to wait untill you get married and then have children? that will give you time to sort out who and what you are, and what you want out of life  luck  jo  
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145992 tn?1341345074
I remember you posting about your boyfriend and his so called "best friend" who always gets upset when he doesn't spend time with him.  I think his name was Joey but I'm not sure.  Anyway, we all told you that it seemed strange and that it sounds like your boyfriend and him may have more than just a friendship.  Seeing here that you said he was or is bi makes it a little clearer.  Do you think that possibly he is seeing Joey on the side?  Maybe that's why he isn't capable of giving his all to you?  Please don't get upset with me saying this but it kind of makes it a little clearer now.
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This is a silly question but having seen so many screwed up relationships end because after their were kids involved why should anyone commit to someone whose bi, when the bisexual person can't commit to one sex?
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574170 tn?1277941303
you dont have to worrie about me posting anying thing aging u all dont understand at all there are a few that understand I am not the best when it put my feelings and what is going on on a fourm but I feel like you all are hateing I just stop posting and all so you or any one easl
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