not enough sex !?

[123_]

hi so here's my situation:

i've been with a girl for like 10 months im 19 shes 18. we have sex like once in 2 weeks in average and it recently happened so like we did it about 3-4 times since we started having sex. im wondering why she never takes initiative or why its so hard to get sex from her. I dont know what to do to get to have more sex because when i talked to her about it she started thinkin thats all i wanted so it didnt help. plus she told me some of the stuff she did with in the past and im wondering why she doesnt do the same kind of stuff with me now like its bee n10 months tahts almost a year she shouldnt be uncomfortable but yet she still is and its rly annoying. im tryin not to get mad or wtv whenever she refuses but it rly build sexual frustration in me and i REALLY dont understand how a 18 year old girl that says waht she already told me to not be into sex at that point and it rly annoys me cuz its making trouble i nthe relationship. anyways guys thanks for the answers/thoughts idk waht to do but i dotn wanna leave her for sex frequency issues but i have to get her to have more sex so i know i should talk to her again but i dont know how to approach this or what to say

[AnnieBrooke]

She's probably just not that interested.  Sorry.

[123_]

interesting altho i dont push for it lol im jsut the one always initiating it while i like when its 50-50 but for now shes not into initiating it.. thanks for the response

[sweetpea03]

I wouldn't keep pushing your girlfriend for sex. She may end up resenting you and harbor negative feelings to you if that's all you keep talking about. Try focusing more on your relationship with her, don't bring up sex, and do nice things for her. Give her a back massage, help her with cleaning, etc. When you bring up sex, don't bring it up as "you don't do this or you don't ...", as that will only make her defensive. You can say "I really love being intimate with you and would like to do it more often." Though in the end, this just may be who she is. She may not like to have sex that often, and her libido will always be lower than yours. You have to decide if you can live with that, otherwise you should break up and move on.