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stupid homewreckers!!!

So my husband came home tonight from hanging out with that girl he's been talking to and told me that she chewed his *** out for me posting on his Facebook wall, and also told him that he needed to choose between me or her. And he is deciding which one he wants. If he wants to stay with me and be unhappy or go with her and be happy till she breaks up with him.  I honestly have no words for this. She also gets mad when he's texting me. So when he's with me he doesn't text her and when he's with her he doesn't text me.  And the way he is acting he's gonna choose her. Which is perfectly fine. She can have him.  I'm tired of fighting and putting up a fight for him to stay when I know he wants to leave. Me and my son will do fine on our own.
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8778737 tn?1413827423
This seriously mist be the "in thing" now. Because not only isis your husband letting a 17yr old kiss his neck... In spite of HER ex... But he's treating you like poopoos.

I hope at times with my husband, that he cheats on me while I'm pregnant. He's already shown signs of lying... And not coming home... And "working late." I dare him...

But you have some doooshbag who's actually tellllling you this girl is texting him!!! What is his problem.

He's the father of your baby, but.. You have to think what's beat for you two.( you and your son)....

Think well and long about it, because divorce isn't a break up and come back because you aren't mad anymore....
Best wishes momma, and stay FREAKIN STRONG!!
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Thank you ladies for all the support!!
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I didn't tell him to choose me or her. She told him that he had to choose me or her. And he told me that he was thinking. Yeah. No I'm not having it. I will be gone and he will eventually realize what he has done. And i will not take him back. If it's happening now it will happen again.  I totally agree.  I'm so over this none Sense drama. He seen that I changed him name in my phone, and I told him I'm done. So.
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10052319 tn?1408978714
O i swear if there was no law n this was my husband i would put his car on fire n probably kill his *** -_- i hate the fact that stupid sluuttyy bitchez can get away with that zhitt !!! N him too wtf was he thinking he has a wife n a baby on the way grr makes me mad but honestly file for divorce n just be strong for ur baby u guys deserve better !
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1756475 tn?1330538713
Change the locks, file for divorce & text him that you made the choice for him.  You do not need that in your life or your childs life. He made the choice when he let her kiss him on the neck and didn't stop it the very first incident.  

Good luck!
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10221785 tn?1410990458
I despise women who go after married men but you can't put all of the blame on her. Its both of them. He's married to you with a baby on the way!!! He knows better too and for him to do that to you disgusts me!! I'd kick him out and make his *** pay child support. She won't want him for long after he has to give all of his extra money to the baby instead of pampering her. I'd give them two hell!!! And I wouldn't take him back either. You're going to find someone who would never dream of hurting you like that! I'm sorry you're going through this :( best of luck to you and your little Angel ♥
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