This is embarrassing, but around 30 days ago, I was at a bachelor party where a stripper put her finger into her vagina, then abruptly (and unwelcome) into my mouth. It caught me off guard and I moved away from the action, but I'm concerned since I did get sick after the weekend (sure it was just the flu, but I seem to be getting sick easier). Also, I did notice a few red bumps (3) my inner and outer thigh and one in my pubic hair area. Am I at risk for contracting an STD? I have one partner for 8 years (wife) and have never had this concern before, so it's frustrating.
I do have pain in my testicle but this was before the incident and something I've dealt with over the last year or so, but it's hard to differentiate the concerns. Should I be tested?
Very embarrassed and would prefer not discussing with my wife. She knows there are strip clubs involved in the bachelor party, but this likely "surpirse" would ideally be left unsaid. I'll just need to be more careful when partaking at friends bachelor parties to not get caught off guard.
Thank you.