Yesterday I engaged in mutual masturbation with a gay man (I am male).
He never actually masturbated me (I masturbated myself), and I did not touch his penis (I did rub his penis and testicles with his underwear on for a short time). But at one point, he got a small amount of his pre-*** on his fingers and then rubbed it on the shaft of my penis. I don't *THINK* any got on the head of my penis, but I may be wrong, so I suppose it's possible that some got into my urethra, but I don't *THINK* that happened.
He also used a penis pump on me for a short period of time which he uses on himself. It appeared to have not been recently used, but I don't know if it was clean or not. He did rub my testicles for a bit with his hand. We did hold each other a bit (no real rubbing, just him laying on top of me and holding me for a short time), and sucked on each others nipples.
That's all we did. No kissing, no oral, no anal, nothing else at all.
Am I at risk for ANY STI's (NOT just HIV, but any others)? I do not have any broken skin on my penis.
My biggest fear is that his pre-*** may have possibly entered my urethra. Again, I fairly sure that did not happen, but I am not POSITIVE. After he rubbed the small amount of pre-*** on my penis, I continued to masturbate to completion.
I went home and showered. When I urinated, I did feel a fairly sharp pain and since then, I basically have no pain urinating, but my penis does feel strange, almost like a slight burning pain all the time (though not when urinating). No discharge, but I am urinating more frequently than normal. Could the pain and urination be coming from the usage of the penis pump? He did that long enough to cause me some pain.
Do I need to get tested for anything? I am married and most certainly don't want to risk passing something along.
Please help.
Thank you.