ok today i saw red spots on my penis they dont look like bumps because there not raised up or anything .when i rub against them i dont feel anything . i told my girlfriend about it she said that she had no signs or syptoms ,my mother said it might be from soap that im using ,but i dont know im really nervous can you please help :( .it doesnt look like herpes ,never had any discharge ,no pain or anything ,there really little in size ,and my girlfriend said she has NO bumps or red spots or anything she said she is fine