1st time, concerned & confused.

[holilova]

hi everyone,

I did something for the first (and last) time and i am very worried. i need your help. I surfed the internet and bumped into this website, i read dozens of posts and i only got more confused. I don't know if the answers are by doctors or just good people out there but i thank you for helping me out.

2 days ago, for the 1st time i went to an Asian massage parlor and i asked for a regular full body massage. It started good and after some time she started stimulating my anus with her BARE finger, the bare finger was inside apprx 10-15 minutes, with her other hand she stimulated the testicles and penis (bare hand as well, no condom/glove). One day later i noticed a very small discharge from the penis, it was after a "sexual conversation", so i am not sure if it was caused by that. Today, 2 days later, i noticed a single tiny pimple like dot on the upper side of the penis (close to the body/pubes). I am worried about this and want to see if i am ok or need some kind of testing as i don't know if i was at risk of some/any STD.

I did not touch her anywhere and she was completely dressed.

i know it might not be nice to ask because it is a free service, but if possible please answer in detail so i can have it all clear.  (i saw many answers "no" or "yes")

From the described encounter, was i at risk for any of the following - Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HIV, HPV, Herpes, Syphilis, Warts, Rectal Infection, and any others i am not aware of.

God bless you all for your help

Optimistic but Worried

[gracefromHHP]

you specifically asked about hpv and hsv hence why I answered about both of them. in general even my reply would've been to you initiall - not a risk for std's and to move on.

[holilova]

hey grace, was going over the entire discussion and i was wondering if you can tell me why in the first two answers they both say it his a "ZERO RISK" for all std's, including hsp and hpv. bless

[holilova]

Thanks Grace, you are a wonderful person!

[gracefromHHP]

not many folks have herpes on their fingers. those who do, are only contagious when they have active symptoms. active symptoms are very painful and it's doubtful they would've been working doing massages with them.

once again, possible but not probably with the hpv issue. it happens but not very often and really not worth any worry from.

just touching isn't likely to transmit a std in general.

as we say often here - don't confuse guilt with risk!

[holilova]

Is it possible to have open herpes lesions on a finger? if so, how likely is it?

in regards to the hpv, how likely is it for a person to transmit it via the long nails?

if a person is indeed carrying an std and the infected area touches another person is it for sure transmitted to the other person, or it can touch but not necessary infect?

thanks for your patiance

[gracefromHHP]

you won't get herpes unless they had open herpes lesions on their hands at the time.

in theory you could contract hpv if they had long nails and didn't scrub them well but that's one of those possble but not probable things and not worth worrying about.

no reason why you can't have sex with your regular partner from this.

[holilova]

i thank you grace for your help. In the past few hours i read a lot of posts regarding this subject and in most of them the answer is that no std can be transmitted from getting anally fingered, but there are a few that say that it is possible to get an std from getting anally fingered, especially hpv and hsv. Is that true? Can one be 1005 sure he doesn't need to get tested for any std after such an encounter, and it is safe to have sex with girlfriend without putting her at risk? To clarify, there was absolutely no other contact other than the female massage therapist inserting her bare finger in my anus for 10-15 minutes and a quick hand job. thx

[gracefromHHP]

they usually wash their hands to get off the massage oil in between clients. No reason to be concerned about a std from this.

grace

[holilova]

Hey Jessy,

quick question, is there a risk if the massage therapist touched an std infected person prior to touching me? and also, is there any kind of disease (std or any none std) that can be transmitted through a hand/finger?

Thanks!

[holilova]

Thanks Bannoura!

I will gladly hook you up with her, she is awesome :-)

[holilova]

Thank you Jessy, you are my angel :-)

[JessyJames2010]

I agree with bannoura.

ZERO risk for HPV,
and ZERO risk for her licking your nipples.

[bannoura]

unless there was intercourse or she gave you oral, your risk of getting anything is ZERO. Don't worry too much or you will worry yourself sick .

Ps, you have to hook me up with that lovely Asian woman :)

[holilova]

hey Jessy,

thanks a million for taking the time to reply to my post. i was very worried and needed a confirmation that i am all good.

Any reason to be concerned about the tiny little pimple and the very small discharge i wrote about?

I did get tested a few weeks ago (before that encounter, just for general peace of mind) and everything was negative. The only one std there is no test for is HPV, just to confirm from your reply, even HPV was ZERO risk from my encounter? (sorry for re-asking, i wanna sleep good)

i also forgot to ask two more short things. Any risk for any of the above list of std's if she put the tip of her tongue on my nipples for no more then 1-2 seconds.

thanks a lot Jessy