I'm not sure what ot make of this

[someguy435]

Hello,
I'm not so sure what to make of this. 3 days ago I had unprotected oral sex with sex worker (dont know why i didnt even think of a condom- my stupidity-(i'm shaven,and circumsized btw) anyways, she was totally into foreplay - I'm not trying to advertise, I just want to explain here- she washed me down at the sink with warm soap and water, dried me up, then she used this warming lube on me and friction made it really warm. as she "worked" me, the warming sensation increased. When I was done, she used another warm towel and cleaned me up. Now when I was driving home I thought "holy ****- I forgot to use a condom!" she works many different cities, adverts on craigslist. I am so freaked out, I dont know what to do! my area above my shaft is slighlty swollen, and my genitals are burning even till now. NO cuts or anything, but it seems that some small spots are appearing on the sac- do you think this could be an alergic reaction to the lube? I went a day after to my dr for a blood test, but this feeling and suspense will not let me sleep? I called her and offered her money to come to a clinic for a blood test and she refused- she claimed she was clean had not sores or cuts, and is tested regularly, yet she declined to go for a test.
My question is, and I know it may not make any sense, but I need some sort of direction- what do you make of this? I've studied all the sites of the possible infections, I dont know what to do? I dont want anything, what wouId I tell my wife and kids?? is there any herbal healing out there- nothing that suppresses it, but totally kills any infection? she was clean looking, smelled good, but who knows, if she lets every client shoot in her mouth, what do I have?
help pls.

[someguy435]

thanks for your response,
and i just wanted to share with you that  the cut has not blistered or is not even a raised bump, so i think that part of it is ok. however all the little bumps in the groin area seem to be getting a little bigger with 1 bump having a git of a puss-like tip. so time will tell i suppose.. funny, i have been swamped all day- had my washroom breaks, no tingling sensations. get back tot he hotel, and the tingling starts again. in fact now i feel a bump on my backside (butt)..

[auntiejessi]

I'd wonder if some of it is anxiety.

The only way you will know what these symptoms are is to see a doctor about it.

Get some sleep, and try not to think about it.

Aj

[someguy435]

AJ, thanks for the reply.
I am hoping that you may be right... I cant get in touch with my dr. I've left 2 msgs, and he is away next wk when I return! i have to wait even longer?? i will see if I can find out from another dr there. anyways the bumps seem to have stabalized, they looked puss filled, but are shrinking ever so slightly without having popped yet. but do you think this could be considered a mild breakout? or if it was a fungus, (does fungus puss up) does it take longer than a week to clear up? just asking -btw i just cant sleep i am awake every other hr feeling pinches.
thanks,

[someguy435]

also is there anyway i can post a pic in a private members area so you can give me an idea if this stuff really is herpes- b/c the more and more i research, it seems like it actually is- all the symptoms, the bumps/ lesions/ im so messed up.

pls let me know if this is possible.

[someguy435]

hello there,

I dont know what this means: my lips and tongue are tingling- and the shaft now as well is tingling0 anxiety you think? or something about to happen?

[auntiejessi]

I really think its anxiety hon.  Tingling is a classic sign of being overly aware of certain body parts, which is part of anxiety.

Remember that getting an std from oral sex is pretty low risk, and the chances that you got anything are very slim.

If you are this concerned, you need to carve some time out and go to a doctor.

Aj