I'm not sure what ot make of this

[someguy435]

Hello,
I'm not so sure what to make of this. 3 days ago I had unprotected oral sex with sex worker (dont know why i didnt even think of a condom- my stupidity-(i'm shaven,and circumsized btw) anyways, she was totally into foreplay - I'm not trying to advertise, I just want to explain here- she washed me down at the sink with warm soap and water, dried me up, then she used this warming lube on me and friction made it really warm. as she "worked" me, the warming sensation increased. When I was done, she used another warm towel and cleaned me up. Now when I was driving home I thought "holy ****- I forgot to use a condom!" she works many different cities, adverts on craigslist. I am so freaked out, I dont know what to do! my area above my shaft is slighlty swollen, and my genitals are burning even till now. NO cuts or anything, but it seems that some small spots are appearing on the sac- do you think this could be an alergic reaction to the lube? I went a day after to my dr for a blood test, but this feeling and suspense will not let me sleep? I called her and offered her money to come to a clinic for a blood test and she refused- she claimed she was clean had not sores or cuts, and is tested regularly, yet she declined to go for a test.
My question is, and I know it may not make any sense, but I need some sort of direction- what do you make of this? I've studied all the sites of the possible infections, I dont know what to do? I dont want anything, what wouId I tell my wife and kids?? is there any herbal healing out there- nothing that suppresses it, but totally kills any infection? she was clean looking, smelled good, but who knows, if she lets every client shoot in her mouth, what do I have?
help pls.

[someguy435]

AJ,
thank you so much for putting up with my questions- i really hope it isn't and i really do appreciate your quick responses in my time of really needed them. whoever you are, I really wish you the best for your service you do for so many on this site.  last question for the evening, if it is, how should i tell my wife that i got herpes- i cant tell her the truth- it would kill her- not me, her- she would be devastaed- i know it doesnt sound rite, but i have to make a story. what is believeable?

[auntiejessi]

Lets not assume its herpes.  It really doesn't sound like it.

If it is, then yes, your wife could get it, and no, you wouldn't need to be careful sharing drinks, etc, except to avoid colds, flus, etc.

[someguy435]

assuming if it is herpes, (i hope not) can i pass it on to my wife through unprotected sex? and should i be careful around my kids sharing my drinks?and yeah the airport really got me sweating!

[auntiejessi]

If it starts to blister or look like it has pus, then get it checked.  Yes, it is possible to get sores in one day - I woke up one morning with sores and had herpes.  

And LOL at your description of the airport.  It seems like I always end up in a situation like that.  

Aj

[someguy435]

actually i did load up on the anit fungal cream last night and accidentally touched the shaft with some of the cream on my finger, it did tingle a bit, but i dint think much of it. also today, i had to open my suitcase infront of ppl at the airport because it was too heavy- i was tottally sweating like a dog there and i felt the cream running. also is there anything else that should happend, I e. pussing- if it pusses then it can be herpes, i read herpes bumps cut and puss then scab and can last for how many days? but to happen in one day is this even possible?

[auntiejessi]

A pinhole size cut probably isn't herpes.  Keep your eye on it for a day, and see how it looks tomorrow after work.

It could be irritation from the antifungal cream.

Aj