your thoughts please help me im in destress.

[scared352]

I went on a buisness tripp for work. All the guys decide to go to a strip bar and I joined in. Please no lectures as I know i have made a very bad judgement call here. When I received a lapdance the girl fondeled her virgina exsiting it. As she was touching me I leaned back closed my eyes and opened my mouth. She then placed her fingers in my mouth this was unexpected I thought I was just going to enjoy a grind session. Ok i freaked out and went to the bathroom and washed my mouth. Drunk and not remembering much I think i swallowed before i made it to the bathroom. I rinsed and then went home and washed my mouth with listerine, brushed my teeth and even swished with more alchohol. (dont think this helped.) 2 weeks have passed and my lips seem to look different a line under them lookinng alot like a rash. I have a slight fever about 99.5 my skin is begingin to itch all over and to make matters worse I have developed a red pin head dot on my finger it hurts pretty bad when touched or rubbed. Pretty sure i didnt do that a work. On my stomach i have developed itchiness and a small bump filled with white fluid. Ok but what really concerenes me is my lips i developed a small bump almost like large pimple but doesnt hurt and no fluid is present as of yet. My lips dont look normal the way i have always seen them they seem to have a rash under the lower lip. I have gone in for testing and I am awaiting results. Please can some help me and provide some info im going crazy. On my first day back simptonless I had sex with my wife and now im scared for us both.

[scared352]

AJ I have a question. Cna deep anxiaty cause symptoms that seem like an initial hiv infection. I know you said that there is possibly no way I could have contracted HIV but my mind keeps going around in circles thinking that I may have contracted HIV.  question 1. Is my test r24/dna pcr test a good indicator at 17 days after possible exposer?  (it was all negative) is it at least 75% good?
question 2. My symptoms are upset stomach, loss of appetite, loss of sleep, soar throat, night sweats, tingeling in both arms at night and what seems like oral thrush. My toung in the morning is coated white and all that i taste is waxy. this is on top of the others. I will agree with my doctors that my anxity level seems very high that is why I ask. Going again tomorrow to meet with my doctor. Who still thinks i have herpes after the test said unsure. Aj I need more of your sound advice.thank you

[auntiejessi]

This isn't herpes, but I don't know what it is.

It really could be anxiety, but you should get a urine test done to see if there is any bacteria in your urine.

Keep in mind that any genital symptoms you have are not related to this incident.  You had no genital exposure.  You just can't have gotten an std from this situation.  

Aj

[scared352]

hey AJ I have a general feeling of malice. The doctor keeps telling me its anxiaty but I keep developing these small bumps in different parts of my body. They are small and are hard to spot. I show them to the doctor but he says they are nothing. These things hurt but the pain goes away but the spot stays.they almost look like a small cancer sore. I have a back pain that does not seem to be muscle related it feels like my kidneys. I am still itchy and it burns when I urinate. I am tiered all the time. Something is wrong. I never felt all these things until that tripp. What could this be. My doctors dont seem to be catching it. Look i know its easy to relate this to anxiaty becuase its an easy call. I swear thst this is not just anxiaty all this stuff hurts, my bumps on my lip havent gone away, i have had a sore throat for almost 2 weeks , it burns when i urinate, I feel slow and sickly, my skin itches in diffent spots, My legs feel hot all the time. Please any help

[auntiejessi]

OK last time.  You can not get HIV this way.

All these articles are talking about actual oral sex.  You didn't have that.

Aj

[scared352]

I know im jumping around here. I read this article on HIV and since this contact im still in the window period to be 100% sure I didnt get it. I know the risk is very low as stated before. She may not have had HIV at all. I did read though that people with HSV2 Contract and spread HIV more often because there risk factors are higher. I also got an article here that states that there seems to be no real cases documented on contracting HIV to exposer to vaginal fluid. This means I have a very good chance of not having HIV right? Sorry but the internet can be very scary because I read some of the symptoms of initial HIV infection and they seemed like mine.

Oral sex (mouth-penis, mouth-vagina): The risk from oral sex is very minimal as the mouth is an inhospitable environment for HIV, for several reasons. Saliva contains enzymes that break down the virus; also, the skin of the mouth is sturdier than in the anus or vagina. There are, however, a few documented cases where it appears that HIV was transmitted orally. These cases are all attributed to ejaculation in the mouth (i.e., exposure to semen, not exposure to vaginal fluid or pre-seminal fluid).

Sorry just a little scared and you seem the best person to talk to about all this. Thank you for the sholder to lean on.

[auntiejessi]

Oh hon.

I answer people, and while I sometimes get frustrated, I don't get mad.

Herpes doesn't work the way you think it does.  It won't go into such a deep sleep that being exposed again would waken it.

You also wouldn't get herpes from this exposure.  Lets not forget that fact.  You certainly wouldn't get hsv2.

Aj