I sent you a friend invite. I thought I had already done that but checked and I had not. It's sent now though.
I'm so glad you Had a wonderful Thanksgiving with everything you've been through.
You're quite an amazing woman to still care about your husband. Hopefully he does'nt have Alzheimer's. The forgetfulness may be caused from stress. I'm sure the Dr will do testing on him.
How are things going with your therapist? You seem to like going and that's really great.
Yes, I love having a daughter. I must admit, when I was expecting I of course like any mother wanted a healthy baby. I did hope for a little girl though and that's what I got. She's an amazing young woman and we are extremely close.
We had a nice Thanksgiving. I'm the oldest of 3 girls and it was the first year my husband and I had it at our home. My mom has done it for so many years. It's time to give her a break from all the cooking and just have her show up with everything ready.
Please let me know if you get a chance, how everything went at the Dr. Take care. Remar
Oh my gosh, I had a wonderful Thanksgiving. All my boys were there. I went to my #2 son's house and the rest were there. Yes, my husband came also. I felt sorry for him. I guess he's losing his memory. I had noticed he would lose keys every day and we think he's in first stages of alzheimers. My son is going to take him to KU tomorrow for a check up. I can't even be angry at him now, just sick. My son told me he got a call the other day from an old neighbor that he was wondering around looking lost. My son went to check on him and he had lost his truck and did'nt know where he was. I am concerned about all this and yet I don't quite know what to do. Can't wait to talk to my therapist Friday. I feel upset over everything but I know somehow it will all work out.
Enough of me. How did your Thanksgiving go. Really great I hope. I'm thinking you spent it with your dear daughter. It must be great to have a daughter to share with and communicate with. Not so easy with boy's. Well I need to get off here and get ready for tomorrow. I decided I'm going to doctor with my son and husband. I'll be talking to you later. Hope all is well with you. Annie
I think you felt sorry for your husband because you are such a caring woman. You need time for you right now though. I'm glad to hear you have a standing appointment with your therapist. This is going to take time. And like you told your husband, you may never be ready to talk to him. Maybe one day you will though. I think you both need to be in therapy and then possibly couples therapy. Even if you don't get back together the couples therapy may give you the answers you really need as to why your husband did this.
If you get tested every 6 months you're probably fine. It was smart of you to be tested again though. Take care. Remar
My kidney is 3rd stage renal failure and it's, of course, a transplant so I'm a bit worried but not to much. I did test out perfect and it will take a bit for hiv test to come back. You know, I forgot I am tested every 6mo. for everything because I am transplant. I have been so angry and upset that I forgot it. I do have an ongoing appointment every friday to see my therapist. My husband came by after church today and wanted to talk. I felt sorry for him. He has aged. He has always been a good looking man but he sure looked older. I told him I wasn't ready to talk to him and didn;t know if I ever would be. He started to cry and I just hated that. My sons were here and told him they would talk to him but to leave me alone, that I was just starting to calm down. I don't know why I felt so sorry for him. I'm the betrayed one not him. I ask God to let me just not care about him at all anymore. It's hard. We have a long history and quite a story. Well again have a good turkey day and I'll be talking to you. Annie
Did everything check out alright with your kidney? I sure hope so. Ha ha! Your comment about it being a male kidney is so funny. You do have a great sense of humor. And I agree with your therapist, this is one of the things that will get you through all of this.
Aw! Congratulations on your new great grandson. Your little great grand daughter will get used to her new brother in time. What she said was so cute though.
Did you set up another appointment with your therapist? I was really happy to hear that you would be going to one. It's something you need to do for yourself.
Yes, thank goodness all tests came back clear. Take care. Remar