You're welcome. Just be safe and smart about things and you'll be fine.
thank you so much for getting what i was asking... and thank you also for calming my nerves i was really scared because i am not sexually active and have never been.... so i was quit worried. again thank you thank you thank you i owe you a lot. you just took the biggest weight off my back that i have ever had to carry.
~ Dancin1feet
you can't get pregnant by holding hands...
The probability is 0%. If you had got pregnant on that occasion, you would enter the history as the first woman who got pregnant by holding hands. If every guy who jerks off and then shakes hands with a woman could be a potential father of her child, the world would be much more overpopulated than it is now...
It is a low percent if not zero. He cleaned up, presumably you held hands when his hands were dry.
Sperm is usually "dead" once it dries up and that doesnt' take too long to happen. Even so, he probably got it all away after he cleaned up and it's very very VERY unlikely you got any on your hand from holding his hand and its even more unlikely that even if you did get any on your hand that it hung around long enough to still be "good" when you masturbated later.
So relax. You're not pregnant.
However, use caution and common sense to avoid unwanted pregnancy. Use condoms and/or other forms of birth control if you are sexually active with your boyfriend. "Safe" activities can also carry their share of risks too. Just because you're not having sex doesn't mean you can't get pregnant (although its far less likely). Although intercourse is how most people get pregnant be aware of how and where he "finishes" if you're sexually active with him, keep it away from your vagina, and you won't need to worry about an accidental pregnancy.