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when shoud i?

when shoud i have sex i am 12 an i am having sooooo many thats of having sex what shoud i do or what?
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646779 tn?1281996041
Lots of young people like you have those thoughts but it's just part of growing up. Just because you're thinking about it doesn't mean you should do it. You are not alone in your curiosity, pubity established etc, but feeling the need to act out your thoughts is not needed at your age.
It may be strong in your thoughts now, but I'm sure it is just a phase in discovering you're growing up.
Waiting until you're 17-18 would be a better option than even the next few years, let alone at 12. You will be more mature and responsible by then.
You don't want to be a father at 13 now do you?
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12 is way too young. many different emotions come when you have sex and someone 12 years old can not handle them. I don't want to scare you but you have to remember that pregency and STD's do happen.
I also think 16 is too young, but it is for each person to decide what is best for them, but 12 is too young.
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575741 tn?1235669754
Your twelve.....your way too young to be thinking about having sex....stick to masterbation until your way older!
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492898 tn?1222243598
Sorry, I thought you were a girl. ignore the parts specific to what I said to a girl about my above comment. but again, it's normal to have those urges, and you can also get hurt.

I would also think it would be hard to find a partner at your age. Again, don't feel you need to act on those urges. just enjoy them.
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492898 tn?1222243598
It's really hard to answer your question. Would it be OK to just tolerate the thoughts about sex, and or even enjoy them for what they are without acting on them? or just masturbating?
I think it would be best to hold off until you are older. It's not only about the medical precautions you have to take, but it's for your social well-being, both now and in the future.

Both boys and girls may not respect you as much, and you may be used, and then in terms of the relationship with any guy, you may feel very hurt and used.

It's OK and normal to have those thoughts and dreams. You don't have to act on them?
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