sexual health

[sexybabe666135]

hi i found a lump on my private area and ive got to checked out they say its nothing but its happened twice now it comes up now and again.  i have changed my routine so i know its nothing im using and plus i keep coming on my periods twice every month but its just a brown but i dont think thats normal. i have a proper period but then 5 days later i have another period but its just brown.  Ive been checked out and i know that i havent got anything because me and my partner have safe sex and we only have sex with each other adn we use condoms all the time.  i wonder if you can give me any advice please.  how can you find out if you have thrush or anything like that without going to the doctors or the sexual health clinc can you tell me the symptons i should be looking for.  

[sexybabe666135]

but me and my bf havent cheated on each other i tried and say to him that im going to get checked out and then i dont do it. because i dnt want to go behind his bk

[avisg]

I really dont think they judge you I think it makes you very smart for getting yourself checked out to make sure you are healthy .. I got cheated on at one point i remember being humiliated having to go be checked end the doctor said I did the smartest thing i could have ever done I was respecting myself and my body and making sure it there wasnt anything .I was also thinking about others because i would never want to give anyone anything.. So I think you are doing the best thing

[sexybabe666135]

thanks for the comment i always get scared and worreid that every1 judges you when you go and get checked out.  mostly im worried that they wil say it is something because then i have to explain to my bf why i went behind his back.