14+ & no crush

[Vball01]

Hello, My best friend has never liked a guy. Like she's never even had a crush. She's 14 and I don't know of it's that she just hasn't hit that phase yet or if it's something else. Which is wierd because guys always like her. Any ideas? Thanks!! ( And I'm positive she isn't into girls)

[heaarrtt]

i started liking boys when i was like.. in year 4!- 10? not proper liking them, but i thought i did. its only now [im 14] that the boys i like i really really like

[grendslori]

It's more common than you think, believe me. For the time being, just go out and have fun doing the 'silly things' in life. Just do that and in time, things will become more serious in life. It's called growing up. :):)

[Vball01]

Thanks! I'm feeling better that it's more common(:

[JustAKiddo]

sounds like me :) im 16, and only just started liking guys! i got asked out before but i didnt get the "crush" or whatever so i wouldnt worry bout it, everyones different and you gotta remember, 14 is still quite young, some people dont even hit puberty then! :P
but i love how your concerned, its lovely!

[LilHollywood17]

I don't think it's something to really be too concered about :)
I'm 17 years old, have gotten asked out by guys and guys have had crushes on me, but in all honesty, I'm just not into dating yet.
It doesn't really appeal to me.
In 17 years, I've never had a real crush on anyone.
I've always been more concered with family, friends, and school.

Some of my friends call me anti-social.
My psychology teacher just calls me independent lol

No worries :)
She'll find a special someone in her own time.

[Vball01]

Thanks guys!!

[grendslori]

I think it's just wonderful that she 'isn't into guys' at her age; it means she is focused on so many other things in her world! She has plenty of time to matue into the woman she will one day become and at that time she will be interested in someone special. My hat's off to her!! :)