Doc. Appt =)

[misschocolatee3557]

My appt went greatt ;; it was so neat to hear the baby's heartbeat. It was 160 per min and all i do is get closer and more attached everytimee i look at the ultrasound picture. My next appt is jan. 6 and i will find out hopefully what Im having. Im 14 weeks Saturday. Im keeping my head up but it hurts me that my mom thinks im not qoin to finish school. Its like she is putting me down and givin up her faith in me. ! But I will prove her wronq bkuz im a strong individual and I will not give up on myself, I know who is guiding me at all times and who is hear when I fall to help me get back up. School is okay , im just ready for the holidays. Next year I plan on playing volleyball so even though this is qoinq on im still qoinq to do what I can to do what I want and what i think is right. !!! Happy Early Holidays !!

[misschocolatee3557]

I know and I want homeschooling bad. It will help my grades alot more, I will be more confortable also. I just really wanna be consentrated on my work not everybody around me, bcuz 28 more students in one class is too much and nits too many students to worry about.

[sweetpea03]

Home schooling is definitely something to look into. That can really help you to stay on track. Also, maybe look into trying another form of exercise that you can do while pregnant, like yoga or something. Volleyball can be a very aggressive sport and is not something to be done while pregnant. I played volleyball all through high school and it's very physical. Spiking a ball, jumping, squatting, etc. Not something I would think is ok during pregnancy. It is a fun sport, but you'd have to start after your baby is born, if you give your baby up for adoption, otherwise you really won't have the time.

[misschocolatee3557]

No but its definately something i talked about whith my mom. She don't know anything about it so she don't know yet but we will look it up. I know it going to be hard. I worry about myself and my future but i making a promise to myself that im going to finish school no matter what. And volleyball I was considering that after the fact . I dont wanna be lazy so I wanna get involved in a sport.

[sweetpea03]

Talk to your doctor before engaging in sports. Depending on how your pregnancy is going, you can't do certain things. Volleyball can be a rough sport, so I'm not sure if that is something you should be involved in. I'm glad you are keeping your head up and are driven to so what you have always wanted, but I will warn you that it may not all happen, just to be realistic. I do think you should sit down and write down the pros and cons of options you have and try to decide what you want to do. Having a baby at a very young age is difficult. I don't think your mom is giving up on you at all, she's just worried for you. This is not what any parent wants for their child, to be a teen mom. Try to understand where she is coming from. Are you doing home schooling? That might be something to look into, so you can stay on track more easily.