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just curious

everytime wheneva me and my b/f are making out.. even though we havnt had sex yet?
last night we were making out and all of sudden he told me that I cant  touch in certain areas in his body, becoz  he'll get turn on really hard and cant sleep due to the,  fact his pines will hurting?

my question is ? is this normal ya'lls out there? if so, do you guys as couple come a cross this kind situation?
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Im kind of confused about what your saying/asking. But I think that sounds pretty reasonable if your only making out. It could be because he has a premature ejaculation problem like Angfdz said or it could be just because its uncomfortable. I dont know much about causing physical pain but it may cause him to be restless and horny making it hard to sleep feeling sexually unfilled. Although blue balls will cause pain and uncomfort. I say respect his wishes for the time being so neither one of you feel like your being teased or pressure you to go farther than what you both are ready for. Remember to always use a condom when having sex. Good Luck.
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Umm no. I mean blue balls is kind of normal but not like from immediate touching.

It might be that your dude has problems with premature ejaculation and that's why he doesn't want you to touch him there or something.
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