Hello,
Bed wetting in adults can be due to lack of the necessary muscle and nerve control,drinking fluids and water before bedtime, urine infection,alcohol, coffee or diuretic medicines,sleeping tablets,diabetes,stress and anxiety and neurological and genitourinary causes.You need a complete examination from a urologist as treatment will depend on the cause.It mortly consists of treating the underlying cause and medicines like Desmopressin and Imipramine.In the meanwhile you can have enuresis alarms.
I hope it helps.Take care and regards.
i use to wet the bed all the time up until i was like 14 its nothing to be ashamed about. what i tried to do was i would drink anything like an hour or two before i went to bed, but most of the time ppl wet the bed bc they cant wake them selves up b4 they do it so u jus gota kinda train ur self to wake up when ever u feel like ur about to go to the bathroom it worked alot for me