Well you may know my husband to be (one week!) is in the military and was due to go over seas in february for 7.5 months. Just heard yesterday (though its the army so its always subject to change at any time) he is going to be on standby for that time to go over so he might not actually go over. The kicker, he has no idea what it is he is doing if he goes. He will be trained for it from now till then but all he knows is he isnt on a gun like he was originally. So this isnt really his field of expertise Could be worse, could be better. Now I really dont know when the baby making can start. Ill wait and be sure he will be able to be around for it though.