1 night stand..now 8 months preg

[proud_mommy2]

I have been with my fiance for 10 years we split up and he moved out the 25th of april i had a period around the 13th i met a guy and had a one night stand on either the 29-30th of april or the 1st of may. I then started Bleeding again on the 5th which happens to be the last form of a period i had. i took a pregnancy test on june 5th and it was positive my due date is Jan. 30th please tell me that there is a bigger chance that fiances the father and not the one night stand. also he is willing to raise this child as his own and delete the face that it couldnt be his, should i not tell the "other guy" that its his and just live my life with my family?!? what do i do..can i live with myself knowing that my daughter is my fiances and my son may not be?? PLEASE HELP!!

[Ashelen]

The conception calculator I used (not always 100% accurate) says that your date of conception was most likely around May 9th. Was your due date calculated by ultrasound measurements? If so, then you most likely could not have conceived before the 5th of may in order to be 9months on January 30th, so as long as your fiance was the only one you slept with after the 1st I think he is the father, but it's all guesswork unless you want to do a paternity test (DNA) once the baby is born.

[proud_mommy2]

i just need a clear head for these last few weeks.. i have done nothing but worry and be ashamed at myself through this whole thing, dont get me wrong i love the fact that i am preg. and that i can get pregnant, i just am not sure about my situation.