Fat vagina, no labia minora. Please give me some input! =)

[thegirlnextdoor28]

So, I just googled to find information on other women with vaginas like mine, or I should say vulvas, because I have no inner labia and you cannot find vaginas like this anywhere! I felt VERY deformed because of this for so long, I'm 22 now, but feel better after finding this site. However, my biggest concern is the size of my vulva and mons pubis. I'm overweight but my labia majora are very thick and my mons pubis is like a part of my body all it's own. It's soo embarrassing and I hate it. I feel like less of a woman because of it. I do feel like I have a cleaner appearing vagina because of the lack of inner labia, but I feel like my vagina is uber ugly because of the size. I feel like you have to dig ten feet to find the clit, lol. My labia also do not spread all the way open when I spread my legs. I mean, with hands everything is easily accessed of course. I'm overweight but I'm not huge or anything. I just need reassurance that at least one other person on Earth has a vagina/vulva if you want to get technical, like mine. I feel like no man will want me ever again just because of this. Help!

[genderprincess]

Wow. I thought I was the only one. This has really ruined my life. More a problem shopping than with sex. Boys will put it in anything wet, and I have slept with at least a dozen that think this is a major turn on. However, I live with constant concern that people will notice, it dictates lots of things about my life. It also makes receiving oral stimulation problematic because I feel as though they are smothering trying to fight their way through all that.

[AnnieBrooke]

You might google Betty Dodson's website.  She doesn't think vaginas (in any shape or form) are anything to hang your head in shame about.  Men get excited just about the terminology "fat vagina."

[Njsweetnlight]

I don't have this problem and a little confused of picturing what you are talking about but if it is any comfort all vaginas are a little strange looking anyway. I wouldn't get too hooked up on the look because men just care about the feel. Does it feel like a vagina? As long as you are lubricated than you should be fine and if it really bothers you there are wonders in plastic surgery later down the road.