This is one of the most active forums and things move to the next page very quickly. It's easy to lose your message in the bunch. I don't see a chat available here. Sorry.
No. I mean something like a chat room. I have posted on here before and have a hard time getting any answers.
I thought this site was pretty good. Women here seem very comfortable to talk about anything (as an old lady, I even blush a bit now and then LOL). If it's something you need to discuss privately with a person, you can opt to do private messages with a member. Just slide the cursor over their name and you'll see "send a message". Click on that and you can privately discuss your problem.