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cut in lower area =S
im 14 and yesterday had sex with my boyfriend and during it started to kind of hurt me . and so when we stopped we went for a walk and it reaaaaally hurt me to walk . so when i got home later that night i realized i have a cut on my outer lips and it hurts soooo bad and i dont know what to do . im washing it with this really good stuff my mom says to use just not with this type of problem and i dont want to tell her about it . im also hanging out with my boyfriend again tomorrow and he wants to do it again and so do i but i dont know how much pain i will be in . can someone pleeaaaase help me asap !
yeah my mom knows that me and my boyfriend are having sex because i asked her about birthcontrol and my parents are fine with it as long as im beingsafe and not getting diseases or pregnant.
Your welcome glad you are feeling better. Good girl on using the condoms smart move. By the way I was a young girl of 16 when I first had intercourse ( sex ) , I am 46 now and i wish I had the education about sex and birth control when I was a teen. I could not go to my mom either to talk about sex and having sex, I am from a Catholic family so having sex before marriage was a big no no In Gods eyes and my parents eyes too.
yes we are using condoms and thanks for your help it has started feeling way better now .
Im a bit concerened in the first place that you are already sexually active at age 14. I am assuming that you may have been a virgin and had rough sex with your boyfriend. I hope the two of you had enough common sense to use a condom. using a condom properly will prevent sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. First of all if your outter lip as you say is cut, that is a breading ground for infection, and catching STD's and AIDS. I would use Bacitacin ointment, its a over the counter antibiotic that you can buy in any grocery store or even a walmart. When you apply it to the skin and the cutt, make sure you wash the area first with soap and water. Then apply the ointment, but do not let the ointment go inside your vagina. It's only meant for small cuts on the skins surface.
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Of course your boyfriend wants to have sex! You are both young and "energetic"! The thing is, if you don't allow this to heal for at least a week or so, it can become infected and could cause permanent scarring that may affect your sex life forever. So, here's the deal. First of all, you need to make the decisions about what affects your body. Tell him you care for him, but he'll need to wait until you are healed up. If he doesn't respect you enough to do this, then he is only interested in you for the sex you provide and he isn't worth your time. I know discovering sex is a wonderful and exciting thing, but a bit of self-restraint is good to exercise now and then!
Also, the reason you got injured was probably because he was too big for you and was in too much of a hurry to allow you to accommodate him, or you didn't have enough lubrication. I really hope you two are using condoms, because becoming parents before you plan to will change every plan that you want to do with your lives...Take care and stick to your guns!!! ;) ~MM
P.S. Watch for signs of infection! Itching, burning, excessive swelling...Please pluck up the courage to tell your Mom if you think this is going on...Mom's are usually pretty understanding...(((((((((HUGZ)))))))
Of course your boyfriend wants to have sex! You are both young and "energetic"! The thing is, if you don't allow this to heal for at least a week or so, it can become infected and could cause permanent scarring that may affect your sex life forever. So, here's the deal. First of all, you need to make the decisions about what affects your body. Tell him you care for him, but he'll need to wait until you are healed up. If he doesn't respect you enough to do this, then he is only interested in you for the sex you provide and he isn't worth your time. I know discovering sex is a wonderful and exciting thing, but a bit of self-restraint is good to exercise now and then!
Also, the reason you got injured was probably because he was too big for you and was in too much of a hurry to allow you to accommodate him, or you didn't have enough lubrication. I really hope you two are using condoms, because becoming parents before you plan to will change every plan that you want to do with your lives...Take care and stick to your guns!!! ;) ~MM
P.S. Watch for signs of infection! Itching, burning, excessive swelling...Please pluck up the courage to tell your Mom if you think this is going on...Mom's are usually pretty understanding...(((((((((HUGZ)))))))
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