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Hemorrhoids

Hi! I wanted to make my name little missy, but it was already taken. My name is Melissa, but everyone calls me Missy. I have been having a problem and went to look it up, that's when i found this site. It seems really nice. I hope you all can come up with an answer that will help me and make me feel better. I don't want to go to the doctor, I am very shy. i have been having hemorrhoids really bad. They will bleed even when I'm not going to the bathroom (#2). Today I had blood all over my panties. My Mom told me to put an ice pack. I have and it doesn't help. My boyfriend of seven years and i have anal sex a lot. i know it doesn't help the hemorrhoids, but I really like it. Do any of you know of anything that will help? Thank you in advance.  Missy
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143952 tn?1237864541
maybe that's why the anal has become so popular
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we could start suggesting it for bc on here? little miss we are just having fun. im sure most of us have had a hemi at some point. its not fun.
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143952 tn?1237864541
yep, had one not too long ago.  thank goodness i didn't even know - they doctor found in on a colonoscopy.  i was just thankful that i had no symptoms!
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Thank you to all that answered me. I tried to tell my boyfriend about the hemorrhoid. He didn't like the idea of not having anal sex for a while. He wants me to go to the doctor and see how I can get it fixed faster. He is a good man, just a little pushy.I have five kids, that's why I like anal better. i don't think I could handle anymore kids. I feel like they just climb out of the woodwork sometimes. Just fixing supper is a huge chore. My boyfriend doesn't want me to use birth control. If it's God's will then I will or won't get pregnant. I think God gave the Doctors the intellegence to make the birth control and us the brains to use it! I do not want anymore kids!!! I have anal because he likes it and I know I won't get pregnant. Smart thinking, I thought.I love my kids and do everything for them. I think if I had more though, I'd jump off a bridge!
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143952 tn?1237864541
just keep in mind that this is YOUR body and YOUR health.  you may need to see a doctor to make sure there isn't an infection going on at this point, and to make sure that you have only a small hemorrhoid.  enjoying anal sex is one thing; doing it in spite of pain to make your bf happy is another.  i have to say i would have a problem if i had a bf tell me that i couldn't take bc pills.  if it not too personal, does he still enjoy vaginal sex???
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Just curious here because I have never had anal sex..... Do you orgasism from it?  I know men have a G-spot in their anus but hadnt heard about anything similar with a women so I didnt think it would  be very pleasurable for a women.

Also, I agree with the other ladies in that you should cut back on the anal sex to give the hemorrhoids time to heal.
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