Is it safe to be pregnant at 37 with a history of 1 child death and 1 misscarriage

[pappoos]

I m at 37 now and having boy of 7 years. But 3.5 years back, I got pregnant again and after 9 months the baby boy was taken perfectly healthy, 3.4 kgs by C/S, and he accidently died on the third day for reason not found. I was shattered to pieces after that and we didn't try after that till now. But 4 months back, I got pregnant again, and on 13 weeks 4 days, the baby's heartbeat was not found, and I waited for 24 days for a natural bleeding to come, with the dead baby, and was admitted in the hospital. They induced and the baby was expelled the next day, and they did a D&C for not coming the placenta. And I m on rest now, 22 days passed.
Mine is a bicornate uterus. I need one more kid. What should I do with this history?

[pappoos]

Thank you my dear for giving me a nice reply. I will surely be coming back to you soon. Am in a hurryburry and just giving you a thanks giving only.

[heartsoul0529]

I am so sorry to hear for your tragic and lost. My advice for you is if you and your husband are both "truly ready" and want to have another child, then you should consult an acupuncturist for assisting you with getting pregnant and taking special herbs to stay pregnant. Also, seek meditation classes  for good relaxation for both you and your baby.  Since you went thru such a horrible ordeal, you need to meditate to let go of your pain and heal.  I do believe an unborn child do feel a bother's hidden pain and that willaffect his or her pyschology, emotionally, and spiritually.  I am not an expert or a doctor but speaking for both of my oldest brother and his wife tragic as well. They both have had 4 miscarriages and 1 unborn still baby 4 days just before due date. So you can imagine what they have gone thru. The buddist teacher from the temple had told them that my brother's wife is still carrying all of her pain and sorrow to each pregnancy and and hadn't fulling let go to accept the new pregnancy, therefore the spirit of the unborn baby senses that the mother isn't ready for him/her as she still need time to heal first. Both of my brother and his wife are approaching in their 50s, so they decided 15 yrs of trying is enough and can't take anymore disappointments and sadness.  So there is still hope for you and your husband.