LARGE MONS PUBIS

[7digits]

HELP. i've a large pubic bone and fat mons pubis. if i wear bicycle pants or something a bit tight it doesnt look like a regular mound.it looks like i have b*lls. i think its because my pubic bone is high. and my mons is really plump and fat, not like a usual mound. others often make fun of me, they say i’m actually a man, that i’m not normal, that i’m disgusting, etc. and when i walk in a bikini or swimsuit in the beach or the swimming pool, i can feel people staring DOWN,once, there was even a group of girls and some boys actually giggling about it. its really uncomfortable. it looks really round, fat and it protrudes outwards. and i’m not overweight AT ALL, but that section is damn fat.i’m 18 and im not sexually active, im embarassed. what do you think should be done? surgery’s my last option..

[Paty1000]

Omg I am so happy I found this site I have been struggling with the same problem I can't wear leggings because it's do noticeable I even thought I had a tumor! Thank god I'm not alone on this I hope we all find out why we have this:/

[Paty1000]

Omg I am so happy I found this site I have been struggling with the same problem I can't wear leggings because it's do noticeable I even thought I had a tumor! Thank god I'm not alone on this I hope we all find out why we have this:/

[sad_and_uncomfortable]

I have this problem and no matter how "sexy" some men on this site may find it I am constantly uncomfortable. I cant wear tight pants and even normal pants bunch around my mons awkwardly. I sit with my purse in my lap constantly because it bothers me how big it looks. I was trying on a form fitting sweater dress and it looked like i was a transvestite who forgot to tuck in his junk.... :'(

[venus101]

Im so happy to find this forum!!  but sad so many other girls suffer the same as I do...  I felt like crying as I read the posts coz I realized I was not alone with this issue & it has the same negative effect on others self confidence as mine.  Ive had it since about 9 years old, Ive been slim most of my life but it was always there. Problems wearing jeans, shorts, swimwear etc. Ive put on weight lately after I broke up with my boyfriend which has made it worse.  Iv been too scared to be intimate with anyone for the last few years - because of it!!  its effected my life terribly coz its kept me single & isolated.  And there has been sum mean or thoughtless comments over the years.   But apart from that, just buying good jeans to go out is soo hard, then trying to get long tops that cover up but still look good.  All my friends & models in magazines can wear any pants & look normal.  Its such an embarassing, awkeward thing to live with..  People do stare at your crotch if u dont get it right!!   But I do feel better after reading all your posts, not so alone & a bit more normal now! : ) xx

[rregul]

Omggg I love this forum.

I am 21 years old, and I have been dealing with this problem since I was about 12. I HATE IT. I have been with 4 guys none of who have ever said anything...my current boyfriend literally thinks I'm crazy and I finally got the courage to tell my best friend like a year ago and she even thinks I'm nuts...but for real it is the worst feeling ever.

Funniest part is that I thought I was totally alone but then in my freshman year of college, my roommate turned out to have the same problem!! I was like so relieved to know I wasn't the only one, and she said guys never even noticed hers either.

Anyway, I am DESPERATE to get the liposuction...I don't care how expensive, how risky, or how much skin will be left...like for real--it's not about pleasing a man, it's about being comfortable in my own skin which I have been unable to do ever since I hit puberty because of this problem...I hate not being able to wear tight dresses or skirts, no bikini bottoms...only skirt bottoms, not running around in my underwear or changing in a room with people because I'm soooo worried about this issue...and I never go out of the house if my shirt or cami doesnt come down far enough to that area.

I can't wait to get a real job when I graduate college and put money away for the surgery...I've already emailed a dr who said it should be about 2000-3000 so that's my goal.

Good luck to all of you and I'm sure you're all gorgeous but anything that can enhance self esteem, I say go for it...we all deserve to feel beautiful.

[curie_28]

for the huntress, where did you have it done how much did it cost? thanks!