It could be an inflamed Skene's gland. Look it up and see if the location is correct. You can find treatment options on the net, but it boils down to soaking in a hot bath with or without salts. Good luck.
looked it up the location isn't correct it is higher up closer to the clitoris. it has gotten more bigger and now looks like its swollen
anymore ideas/ treatment
thank you so much for your help