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Who is the baby's father?

OK before I start please do not judge me. Me and my boyfriend have broke up since November; however I was still messing with him. My last period was Dec 17 2009. I had sex on the 30th and 31st The 4th, and the 8th of Jan with him unprotected however I was messing with another man only once and that was on Jan 13th but we used a condom but when he pulled out the condom was still inside there. I have 37 day cycles so my next expected period would have been on Jan 24th. What is the possibilty that it is my boyfriends?

PS. I started experiencing tender breasts around the beginning of jan. and the other symptoms showed up three days after I had sex with the other dude.
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I do want it. Im just worried it isnt my ex's but I will be going to the doctor tomorrow to check if I am or not.
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Well are you pregnant???  that should be the first question before assumptions and worries come to play.  Ovulation occurs two weeks before or after your period.  When you have thinking like this its important to make the right decision.  What would it matter whos it is???  Do you want it?  if u make a choice based on the daddy it would be wrong.  Im not judging you but ive been there and being here 10 yrs later i wulda made different choices.  Worry about you if ur prego and ur future.  The daddy part will come about after the baby is here!!!!
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if you had multiple sexual partners within 2 weeks of each other you'll need a paternity test that is the ONLY way you'll know for sure.
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